Hi ladies.. im a FTM after many years of marriage and trying. This is my first post here too. Wanted to get some opinions on how u feel after the birth of ur baby...
I know i should feel happy and close to my baby...i hv been praying for this moment my whole life.. but all i feel is tired, sore and bored... i miss my old life and my old self..
Its not that i dont love my son.. i do. But at the moment it feels like survival. I wanna do all the things i used to do and hv some alone time.
Sighz... when wl this feeling go away or get better? How long did it take for u to adjust and finally enjoy ur baby?
Also, did any of u feel guilty abt leaving ur baby with ur mum or mil just to hv some free time?
Thanks in advance... hoping for some sharing...
I know i should feel happy and close to my baby...i hv been praying for this moment my whole life.. but all i feel is tired, sore and bored... i miss my old life and my old self..
Its not that i dont love my son.. i do. But at the moment it feels like survival. I wanna do all the things i used to do and hv some alone time.
Sighz... when wl this feeling go away or get better? How long did it take for u to adjust and finally enjoy ur baby?
Also, did any of u feel guilty abt leaving ur baby with ur mum or mil just to hv some free time?
Thanks in advance... hoping for some sharing...