Hello mummies, I have some issues with my husband recently and think of divorce...
Would like to know if divorce, will my daughters follow me? (I'm not working)... How should I go with it as financial is an issue for me.
Hi Berries
You have to be strong, stay calm and talk to your husband seriously that you don’t deserve to be treated this way.
Whatever stress he has in work he shouldn’t bring home or vent on you. You need respect too.
He said maid can do your job then ask him to hire a maid do and pay for it.
Some husband will bully weak wife.
So you have to be strong.
You are doing everything from household chores, cook, take care children...more hardwork then maid. Sacrifice your time and put in effort in family and also help him save on maid salary $800( salary levy + food and agent fee $2k)
Maid has 8hrs sleep, has off day, can’t multitask, can’t scold, sick can sleep, has salary....etc.
Being a full time housewife is = 24 hr standby maid ,no off and no salary.
So he should show some respect to you and ask him to help some housework if possible, so then he will understand is not easy task.
Let him educate your children. He has to experience himself then he will know is not easy and nothing benefit to be a bad /fierce mother infront of children.
Don’t do everything for him. Give him some responsible in housework and children.
Love and respect yourself.
Btw court will mostly give the children under 7 yo to mother care.
Try to talk to him and give him a chance to change first. Tell him you will divorce if he doesn’t want to change to save the marriage.