My bad experience with confinement aunty Xiu Mei

[Angela Mu]

Here is to share my experience with my confinement aunty Xiu Mei.

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1. I feel she doesn't care me nor my baby. If someone cares you, you certainly feel it. But I certainly don't feel it.

• at night feeding, she knocks my door, and just gives me my baby, and then she just went back to her room to SLEEP, and leave me alone. After breastfeeding, I have to walk to her room ( I gave her a room to stay) and put back the baby in bed MYSELF, and while SHE is all the way SLEEPING. Sometimes, I walk to her room to feed the baby at night, while she is sleeping and never wakes up.
• she wants to control me all the time and asks me to do things in her way, which I don't feel confortable.
• My baby bottom has a few big red pus-pockets, and she pretends not seeing it. When I asked her if my baby's bottom gets anything wrong, she said nothing.... I got pissed off.
• she leaves baby's dirty cloth in water overnight, and just goes back to sleep.
• my baby is very easy to take care, thus the confinement aunty sleeps in her room most of the time. She only comes out to cook lunch and dinner. She doesn't do household work at all, except for cleaning the kitchen.
• When she baths my baby, the baby cries most of the time. After she leaves, the baby never cries during the bath.

2. All she wants is money, money, money.

• She charges me $2800 and 2 hong-bao, plus her taxi fees.
• First, she asks for $150 to buy food for me, and the chicken she bought is very bad. And she said it costs $400 per week to buy food to cook ( way expensive than what we can buy). After 1st week, we never give her money any more, and my mom buys food for me.
• She asks for snack money to buy herself coffee and biscuits. She asks $20 per week, which I know she didn't spend all.

3. Her cooking is very normal, nothing special.

• On the second day I arrived home from hospital，she cooked me a plain noodle for lunch. I am so so weak and disappointed....
• You have to tell her what to cook, otherwise, she gives me simple meal.

4. One thing I hate most is her attitude, arrogant ( she doesn't follow your order and push back in her own way).

I want to fire her in 2 weeks, but I don't want her to shout at my home (scaring the baby) Finally, she asks to leave in week 3. I was very very very happy to see her leave my home, and I never want to see her again.