I m a single mum of 3 kids. I been divorced for 3 yrs. sometimes, I asked myself if I didn't divorce , what would it be like for my 3 children n myself.
Then again, my ex had an affair with a maid in 2004. I forgave him . But he an another affair in 2014, even plotted to kill me over my insurance, my saving n the house. From then onwards , i move on, I like to advocate to my 3 daughters, we can be independent n we will survive. My ex didn't even give us a single cents of maint ( his annual income 103000 ). There loop hope in our law system where the businessman can maniple their earning it even u employ the most clever lawyer. The judges cannot do anything about it., I hold 2 jobs to support my kids too. Meaning, the law said I earn more money than my ex, no maint for me. So, life not fair n woman charter doesn't help much. ( I witnessed many ugly battles in courts, the judges do empathize us but the law need to be fair . N in our system, no fault with man in adultery, unlike China n US system)
Life can be a piece of shit but I gg to use it as fertilizer, to cultivate it (life) to be sweet fruit , that is, wiser with wisdom as u grow. Then, your life is fruitful n meaningful. Hope u get my insight.
Hope all single mum stay strong, positive for both mental n physical Heath n our child will view us as hero n be a model of resilient in their life, no matter how tough life can be.
Best regards.