Recent content by tulips_sweer

WOw, Thanks tulip. I just ran through what you have wrote and I wonder how you managed to write them, no offence but it is so long. Well, Depressed hope you are getting on better now. Any updates?

Hi Blueblue, I personally felt that both parties should be open and honest on their earnings. As a wife, you have all the rights to know your husband earnings. To know is only fair; not to demand more $$ from him. If your husband is mature enough, he should understand that, what is there to...

It may be all out of jealousy and insecurities. You wanted so much to bond with your little girl but your MIL actions is depriving you of doing that. As these accumulates, naturally it will sow a seed in your mind that she is snatching your girl from you. Vice versa, you tried your best to...

Hi PiPi, I really feel for you. Retrenchment is no doubt an issue to you. However, what concerns you more is the emotional support of your husband which you felt lacked of. You have to learn to accept that all of us show our love in different ways. Perhaps to you, due to the harsh fact...

Some insights to share, from http://hubpages.com/hub/Forgiving_a_Cheater_-_Staying_together_After_an_Affair Can the marriage survive? WHAT IS AN AFFAIR? I actually got this concept from a very old episode of Oprah. Basically what she said, is that it is cheating if you would behave...

Rainie, in your heart you are the only one who knows best what you have to do. Your purpose here is to let out your resentment, sort of an avenue to voice out. & for us, we can only give you some advices, opinions and share our experience with you. The ultimate decision is solely yours to...

Patricia = Rainie?

All relationships takes 2 hands to clap. Yes, he has done you wrong, but all marriages may have their imperfections in different ways. If you are willing to accept him back, you have to work hard together with him to overcome this turmoil. Not just him alone, he will collapse. I can see...

My heart aches for you Rainie, be optimistic. The only way to overcome is avoid questioning the past. Since you have decided to give him a 2nd chance, do not dig into the wound so that it will heal faster even though there's a permanent scar. This is the only way to salvage your marriage. The...