Recent content by sad_and_heartbroken

Hi Diana Yes, all of us change, but most of the time, it is the men's hearts which change, seldom the women's heart, isn't it obvious from the so many stories in this forum? If not, why do we have so many broken women's hearts in this forum? Did men forget the vow they have taken? I saw...

Hi Diana Yes, all of us change, but most of the time, it is the men's hearts which change, seldom the women's heart, isn't it obvious from the so many stories in this forum? If not, why do we have so many broken women's hearts in this forum? Did men forget the vow they have taken? I saw...

Hi Caterpilly Can't confront as that heartless man threatened to leave or die if I confront. Thus feels helpless, can't do anything, just have 1 day, pass 1 day. Wanted to divorce but can't because of daughter. Don't know how long this can last, probably one fine day will still be divorce...

Hi Caterpilly Thanks for your advice. I do understand that men do have their ego. But my point is don't you feel dirty if you know your men is still sleeping with another woman, even if you are his legal wife and the other woman is always the dark lover? I accept your point if my husband...

Hi Jess So coincidentally, I also stay in Yew Tee. Your husband also cheated? Why are men all like that? Cheated and yet pushed all blames to the wives.

Sorry, where to find my user name?

On question 2, I don't want only $1 token maintenance. Not that I am mean, but since I have endured for 3 months and given him chances to be back with the family, he still refused, I want him to taste the medicine of broken family and divorce, ie paying high maintenance, can't see his daughter...

Hi miracle can advise how to on pm?

Hi need some advice on divorce. Appreciate your help. I am working and earning more than my husband. He is self-employed and don't declare much for his salary, but not too sure how much he makes as owner of his business. My job needs me travelling almost every mth. I have a 9 year old...

Hi Clubby fishes Yes, my gal is always and will forever be my top priority. If not, I would have agreed to divorce 3 mths ago, without my gal, no point sticking to heartless man who is so selfish think of only himself. Will try to change job to one that don't travel, just worried about job...

Hi iLikePink Don't know how to trust strangers now when even husband of 20 yrs can betray. Actually thought of some close friends staying nearby, but they have their family schedules to attend too, considering nowaday many children have many outside enrichment to attend. Maybe I should...

Not only PRC. My husband is involved with a Malaysian girl from Pontian. I think sluts can be anyone who is eyeing on money or sex only, don't care of consequences. This slut from Pontian is lowly educated and my husband's staff. She is only 25, my husband 42. She knows he is married with a...

My husband is extremely timid. Dare to have sex with her in Geylang hotels don't know how many times, don't dare to face the music. I tried to salvage the marriage so asked him to go for marriage counselling. He said he is busy. After trying for 3 months see no hope, tell him I agree to...

Thanks for everyone's kind words. I know my 1st priority is my daughter, so I tried to endure him for 3 months already and tried to spend more time with him (since he complained I neglected him that's why he looks for other woman). But he still will not give her up and that shameless woman...

Linda Thanks for your fast advice. Have thought of that but don't think it is feasible. If divorce, I hope to stay put at current house as don't wish to have too many changes for my young daughter to bear. It will be too harsh for her to have no father and have to make new friends in school...