Recent content by queenie08

Hi ladies - need your advice on urgent leave - as her mum was sick. We bought her return tickets immediately and she went back early the next morning. We gave her 7 days of urgent leave. Now that she is back - I am wondering how her salary/future leave/off day should be arranged. Example : do...

Hello all, my new maid has worked for me for 16days and ran away. I don't know what happened. Most likely its because she felt work too overwhelming for her. We have 3 kids and she has onlu looked after the elderly. We were out to have meet the parents session for our children's extra...

Hi. Is this still available?

Hi ladies. Thanks for all the input. Nicoletan78 - thanks. Have tried very hard. But I guess there always should be a line drawn. I've changed her out. My hubby insisted on getting a recording for some reasons. And when we did that, we found out she did only stuff in the morning that was...

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Hi dearie. Can add me too? [email protected] EDD : 7th Oct Thanks !!

Hey ladies. I no longer bm nor pump. My boy and girl are already 6.5 and 4.5 - but I did that for both of them. You r right - FTWM and pumping 4hourly and bm when I get home is tough tough tough. Did it for a full year each. But hang in there OK. Take loads of vitamins. I take redoxane...

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Hi mummies, do you have any recommendations for Chinese tution for primary 1? Unfortunately my son is really bad in the language and also trying to learn Han yu ping Ying. I can't seem to teach him either as I am not good in it either. Also, any thoughts on 1-to-1 home tution vs class...

Hello ladies... Pinkdoll - I have to agree. Maybe I am too relax with her. Maybe I should have just say no when she requested for phone calls and wifi access. I do have house rules set. Printed it out and went hrough it with her. But all of these she seems to disregard. Simple things like -...

Atta - u r so lucky that your maid reciprocate and appreciate your warmth. Unfortunately for me, my maid feels that it's her god given right. She takes advantage and abuse every freedom we give. She takes from the house whatever she needs without asking which I have told her several times not...

Your best bet will be a maid. Although having a maid has a different set of problems. A much larger problem, I should say, compared to lack of sleep at night. He he... If you go for infant care then u need to be prepared to be able to take child care leave as and when your baby fall sick. And...

My oldest is p1. 2nd is in full day child care. My 3rd one is due in Oct I am a full time working mum and my mum is 78. So not having a live in is not an option. Unfortunately.

Hi ladies. Things has just worse. This whole nightmare of changing maids is happening again. Sigh. Recently has seen the true colors of the maid. Even my neighbours has started complaining to me about my maid leaving a mess at the corridor. Loitering outside the house and waiting for the...

Hey ladies What I do is to wear my bikini still and wear another layer top like a tankini. Not so exposed. If I am not swimming laps and moving too much (basically sit by the pool to get sunshine and fresh air) I just wear my hubby's sports tank top that is too tight for him (he he he. Save...