My husband also don’t believe in paying someone to talk to him. But I think we need professional help, just that I don’t know where that help will be. Going private is very expensive but going via Family service centres ... let’s just say I called them twice, and wasn’t impresssd . The first...
I hope things get better for you. PREP seems like a good course too bad we are not eligible for it as it caters to newly weds. They should have something for mid life marriages too... in my time pre maritial counselling wasn’t really ‘in’, if we had this option at that time I would definitely...
I used to do that too. But after some times it just makes things worse as he says I always want him to think / do a particular way. And I’m just too tired and numb to do that nowadays.
Are you doing marital therapy now? How is it working? Any good Counselors to recommend? I foresee in this...
No.., we have had trouble for the last few years, way before covid.
He would get very emotional and there would be sudden mood swings, or irrational anger. He will then yell at us. I think I cried the first two or three years but now I just stare stone face at him while he yells and don’t even...
Sometimes it is outright abuse and you know it is not right.
Sometimes it’s at the edge where you don’t know whether it is abuse or not ( like where I am now)
I’ve struggled with an unhappy and tumultuous marriage for the past few years and don’t understand when or how my husband has changed...