jia you mummy! i can totally understand how u feel... hang in there, there will be good days n not so good days, but i believe it will get better with time as we discover what makes our babies tick. for me, i realised my boy is usually inconsolable when he's really tired but cannot sleep. usually other reasons like hunger, diaper, gas can be easily resolved. like last night, daddy woke him up to feed in front of the TV, i think the sound n lights were overstimulating, he got so angry, my gosh, he cry until his face was purple. had to take him back to the nursery, hug him n speak really softly n soothingly to him for an hr, then finally he finished his milk n fell asleep. oh, n for some reason, he hates parkway parade, lol ... both times we brought him there, the next day he's a terror. wonder if its coz its too cold n crowded there for him. he seems to do fine in other malls like great world city, taka, marina sq etc *scratch head*