Thanks char-mee, I hope you will find strength within you.
I had my MTPT concluded on 25/01. My emotion, sadness and guilty had defeated me totally and left me miserable crying all the way. I only know that my mental, emotion and breakdown was totally out. My Ang never see me like that for the last 18 years since he knew me. Doctor prescribe me with sleeping pills to knock me out during night time. Nurses were also very 'caution' on me. Now. I don't know how to continue my story from here. I only know that the ache, pain and grieves were too great and huge for me to handle, to digest, to understand as I'm the involved party. Others are lookers.
My only regrets was I'm was not able to take a look at my little girl as she 'refuse' for natural expulsion after 14 pills had been inserted. My gync decision was not to wait any further as the side effect of this pills create 'fever' had rose passes 38.5 degree.
I prayed for her forgiveness, I prayed that she will be picked up by Angel to heaven and one day i will see her again. Repeated my Sorry and sorry, mummy always love you till I enter into the OT.
Glad that I'm able to release my heartaches, pain and share it with my Ang for which I had made him cried twice with me. But those pains are real unbearable. I'm really thankful and appreciate that he took a week leave to accompany me, drive me to nearby places for a stroll to divert my attention than copping at home. If this time round without him, I would not able to 'stand up' and nurse back my emotion. Otherwise, I would have gone bonkers.
To my little girl, you would not be forgotten. <quote> If ever there is a tomorrow when we're not together.... There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart... I'll always be with you. Remember, Mummy will always love you, my Arwen.