Hi mummies out here,
My girlfriend(25yrs old) of 1year had gotten pregnant with my child. Initially we were very excited about it. We were making plans for our child that is due in October thus year.
However just few days ago, she suddenly told.me that she was still in love with another guy and she feels that she may regret if she does not try out a relationship with him and end up blaming the baby in future. The guy was someone she has been trying to let go since sometime back.
She now wish to break up with me and be with that guy. She is thinking of keeping the child and raising the child with the other guy or just aborting the child.
She just told me yesterday she may regret in future for her action now but she is very firm on it. She knew that i am the guy that she wants but the other guy is the one she loves and for now she wish to pick her love and pray for a miracle that they can work out. She told me that the guy is fine if she wish to keeo e child as well.
I am really worried thst she may abort the child in the moment of folly. I really do not wish to see my child being sacrificed.
I know its rare that a man is the one trying to protect the child. Usually its the mum. I still believe it will not be easy for her if she really choose to abort her child but she just cannot make a logical decision.
Is there any method or advice i can tell her so she will keep the child no matter what? The child is innocent and i as the dad really hope to protect my baby from being sacrificed.
My girlfriend(25yrs old) of 1year had gotten pregnant with my child. Initially we were very excited about it. We were making plans for our child that is due in October thus year.
However just few days ago, she suddenly told.me that she was still in love with another guy and she feels that she may regret if she does not try out a relationship with him and end up blaming the baby in future. The guy was someone she has been trying to let go since sometime back.
She now wish to break up with me and be with that guy. She is thinking of keeping the child and raising the child with the other guy or just aborting the child.
She just told me yesterday she may regret in future for her action now but she is very firm on it. She knew that i am the guy that she wants but the other guy is the one she loves and for now she wish to pick her love and pray for a miracle that they can work out. She told me that the guy is fine if she wish to keeo e child as well.
I am really worried thst she may abort the child in the moment of folly. I really do not wish to see my child being sacrificed.
I know its rare that a man is the one trying to protect the child. Usually its the mum. I still believe it will not be easy for her if she really choose to abort her child but she just cannot make a logical decision.
Is there any method or advice i can tell her so she will keep the child no matter what? The child is innocent and i as the dad really hope to protect my baby from being sacrificed.