harky
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Every year my mom will go back to her hometown which is Malaysia to celebrate CNY & stay there. (last time when i young, i will go back but not longer now as when age grow by + it too boring there) Mainly i want to stay local to take care of my dearly dog
So every time she went back, her 5th sister (the smallest one) will ask my mom, 2nd & 3rd aunt to pay for CNY groceries. This time round, she ask my mom & 2nd aunt to pay RM$600 each. (RM$600 / 3 = SGD200), as my 3rd aunt did not go. Even 3rd aunt go, each will had to pay RM$400. In the end the bill add up will be RM$1200 = SGD400 which i think is ridiculous just for purely 3day.
There is only 7-8 ppl (my mom + 2nd aunt + 4th aunt + smallest aunt & hub + a cousin + 1 visitor).
Mean my mom 1 day , eaten SGD$66 (for this price, actually can go restaurant) or 3day common meal.
I tot of put a stop on this, and told my mom. Let me talk to small aunt, why she need RM1200 for 3day of CNY groceries. But she disagree as she dont want to talk abt $$. I so angry and understand what she mean but this had been so many time, and because no1 say doesnt mean it right. The main thing is no ppl say and u ppl just give-in. That why it nv been stop.
Some more my mom is a 65+yr old housewife, those $$ is her allowance which we give her .
I know this is old ppl matter but i not young ppl but as a adult..
very sian le. this smallest aunt had been sucking $$.
So every time she went back, her 5th sister (the smallest one) will ask my mom, 2nd & 3rd aunt to pay for CNY groceries. This time round, she ask my mom & 2nd aunt to pay RM$600 each. (RM$600 / 3 = SGD200), as my 3rd aunt did not go. Even 3rd aunt go, each will had to pay RM$400. In the end the bill add up will be RM$1200 = SGD400 which i think is ridiculous just for purely 3day.
There is only 7-8 ppl (my mom + 2nd aunt + 4th aunt + smallest aunt & hub + a cousin + 1 visitor).
Mean my mom 1 day , eaten SGD$66 (for this price, actually can go restaurant) or 3day common meal.
I tot of put a stop on this, and told my mom. Let me talk to small aunt, why she need RM1200 for 3day of CNY groceries. But she disagree as she dont want to talk abt $$. I so angry and understand what she mean but this had been so many time, and because no1 say doesnt mean it right. The main thing is no ppl say and u ppl just give-in. That why it nv been stop.
Some more my mom is a 65+yr old housewife, those $$ is her allowance which we give her .
I know this is old ppl matter but i not young ppl but as a adult..
very sian le. this smallest aunt had been sucking $$.