notsuperwoman
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joanne, "True love should not come in such difficult ways" ... funnily, my counsellor said the exact opposite. she said true love is very hard work, there are many obstacles.. because good things dont come easily.
i dont know if i will be happy in the long run. if he changes, if he really becomes better, i think i can be happier. plus i also think, what if i marry another man, this thing can happen again... now i "correct" my husband already, if he really learn his lesson, then i divorce him.. that means he will be true to his next wife, not me... so his next wife benefit, not me. why should i endure heartpain for nothing?
i dont know if what i say make sense.. but i have already decided to stay. he is trying veryvery hard, today he wake up early just to send me to work, and then yesterday he bring me out. he's trying to get my love again.
honestly i also dont know if he's the right one for me. but my mother always tell me, there's no such thing as "The One". you do your best with what God give you.
isabellali, what you mean by 'girl'? she not prostitute, but she entertain men when they sing or something like that... im not sure also, i dont really want to know what she do at her workplace, i very disgusted when i hear. stupid bitch ah she. my husband also stupid, why can go have sex with dirty girl like that?!
i dont know what's her real name, i only know her nickname at her workplace... keira... YUCKS i say her nickname already want to vomit or kill her. i dont know if i should show her face here.. i can easily steal her pictures off her online profile but sometimes i think i shouldn't make matters worse.. but at the same time i also want revenge. my counsellor keep telling me, "the best revenge is to be truly happy with your husband from now on" but sometimes i think that's not enough. sometimes i want to write her email tell her how stupid she is etc... but dont know if it will make matters worse or not... anyway my husband told me the slut's sister is gang member... wahlao why he get involved with stupid people like this ah???? if normal girl i can easily humiliate or scold or whatever... but gang member sister etc, i also dont know how to take revenge now...
i dont know if i will be happy in the long run. if he changes, if he really becomes better, i think i can be happier. plus i also think, what if i marry another man, this thing can happen again... now i "correct" my husband already, if he really learn his lesson, then i divorce him.. that means he will be true to his next wife, not me... so his next wife benefit, not me. why should i endure heartpain for nothing?
i dont know if what i say make sense.. but i have already decided to stay. he is trying veryvery hard, today he wake up early just to send me to work, and then yesterday he bring me out. he's trying to get my love again.
honestly i also dont know if he's the right one for me. but my mother always tell me, there's no such thing as "The One". you do your best with what God give you.
isabellali, what you mean by 'girl'? she not prostitute, but she entertain men when they sing or something like that... im not sure also, i dont really want to know what she do at her workplace, i very disgusted when i hear. stupid bitch ah she. my husband also stupid, why can go have sex with dirty girl like that?!
i dont know what's her real name, i only know her nickname at her workplace... keira... YUCKS i say her nickname already want to vomit or kill her. i dont know if i should show her face here.. i can easily steal her pictures off her online profile but sometimes i think i shouldn't make matters worse.. but at the same time i also want revenge. my counsellor keep telling me, "the best revenge is to be truly happy with your husband from now on" but sometimes i think that's not enough. sometimes i want to write her email tell her how stupid she is etc... but dont know if it will make matters worse or not... anyway my husband told me the slut's sister is gang member... wahlao why he get involved with stupid people like this ah???? if normal girl i can easily humiliate or scold or whatever... but gang member sister etc, i also dont know how to take revenge now...