Good Confinement Lady for Twins

Discussion in 'Year 2010 Mums' started by july77, Aug 3, 2009.

  1. july77

    july77 New Member

    Hi all,

    Any good recommendation for CL who specialises in twins. My ETD is around 1st week of March 10.

  2. simmama

    simmama Member

    Hi July77



    Can you PM me?

  3. mstan8888

    mstan8888 Active Member

    Hi,



    Anyone hv gd recommendation for good confinement nanny (full-day, stay-in) ?

    Btw, anyone heard of "ConfinementNanny.com" ?

    Anyone used their servies & any comments of their nanny?

    Thanks !

    Plse email me at mstan8888@yahoo.com.sg as I seldom check forum.

  4. liteonmag

    liteonmag Active Member

    Hi July77, my CL has quite a few experiences wif twins, last one was only a few mths back.



    Her name is Ah Ye fr Mersing Johor. Contact number is +6077992250(home) & +60167421779(mobile). Tell her Mag fr Bedok recommended

  5. poko1

    poko1 Member

    Hello. I just want to relate my experience with a confinement lady who lives in Yishun. She has a English name with starting with a "I". She claims that she has experience in handling twins and triplets and this is all she will do. She hardly do singletons she said. I have no doubts at all abt her abilities but it is her actions and words used that made me really upset.



    Continue reading and u tell me if i shd be upset.



    I have delivered a set of twins in June. They were of gestational age 34 weeks upon delivery and the reason why i had to deliver them at 34 weeks instead of the usual 35/36 weeks is bcos one of the twin was not putting on weight ( Dr have been monitering his weight for a month and it was stagnant at 1 over kg, and it was amazingly that i could hold it to 34 weeks pregnancy!)



    Twin 1(older twin) was the lighter babe. He weighed 1.6kg. The other twin was 1.9 kg.

    As he was light weight, he was in the NICU for 3 weeks. The other twin was at the NICU for 2 weeks. They were basically alright. Just light weight.



    I have paid a deposit of 1k prior to delivery. She said that this is standard practice for her as she is very popular and needs us to confirm we want her. We paid the 1k. She photocopied her IC to us and said that she wont run away with the money. Her services for twins are at 2.8K. No housework at all. Just cook and take care of me and babes. She said that she is unlike other confinement ladies who do simple h/w. She added that she is a professional. We acceped that. Hmm....we wondered.....



    We found it hard to find confinement ladies who wanted to do twins. We had a few who rejected us too, so we were happy to get one experienced with twins!!!



    The confinement lady called me many times before and after i delivered to "follow up". When she knew i have delivered, she said that she wanted to start immediately. I said that the twins r in hospital and will be there between 2 weeks to a month! She said that she cant wait for so long and she needed to start within 10 days of my delivery so that she can accept other job offers. I asked her politely who she will take care of when the babes are not back. She said that she will take care of me. Yes, that is important but i need her help more once the twins are back.



    I plead with her to wait. She called nearly everyday to find out when she can start. I was so stressed as i was recovering frm my c sec and had to go to the hospital daily to see the babes and give them the expressed milk and yet the confinement lady had to add on to my stress. At one point i chose not to answer her phone when i saw her number on my hp.



    On the day 10 of my delivery, the confinement lady called again and demanded that she needs to start now. Regardless if babes are back. She added that i have the right to tell the dr that i want the babes to be discharged and to tell the dr that the confinement lady can do a better job of plumpming them up!!! I told her i cant do that and its really the Dr's decision to discharge them and not hers!!!



    She added that the hospital charges must be low that is why i choose to continue to put then there. I was like ????...Anyone noes that NICU is hefty!!!



    She said that in this case, she cant work for me then. I asked her what happens to my 1k deposit and she said too bad, this 1k is to prevent us from rejecting their services at the last min. I tol her i didnt reject her, but the babes need another 2 weeks in the hospital.



    She said that among her 20 yrs of doing confinement, she has never had babies who had to stay there for so long. I said that they are twins and there is always a chance of an even much much earlier delivery in multiples! I even said that she can start when my heavier twin gets back in a few days and asked for a lower charge as now its singleton she is caring for. She said that she will charge a hundred dollars lesser than the 2.8k initially agreed on. I said 2.7K for 1 baby ???



    To cut the story short, my 1k was gone, no confinement lady at this most crutial time and this made me depressed. In the end, i ate no confinement food, no "special herbal water" to bath.



    I am stronger now and i have "pu" myself up with other forms of nourishments after my twins were discharged and thus i can relate my experience to parents of multiples.



    I have regained my sanity of caring for my twins in the hospital, and i have rested at home too. I thus called her a week ago, and asked if i can get half of my 1k back. Guess what did she say???



    She said that luckily i called her as she has lost my number. She wanted to call me to tell me to pay a "fine" of $200 for not engaging her services last min resulting in loss of job offers.



    I gasped and slammed the phone of cos...

  6. capri_gal

    capri_gal Member

    Hi,



    I would advise you to go to the police and make a report, and bring the hospital documentation etc. And have the police call her down. This kind of person are like that, you need to use the law.

  7. light2spark

    light2spark New Member

    Post her particulars and contact numbers too!

  8. denorlisa

    denorlisa New Member

    Hello all,



    I'm in my 2nd confinement and this CL is really good.



    Helped with breast engorgement 'cos she learnt the technique from Ms Wong Boey Boey from Thomson Medical centre



    cooked 3 different kind of soups everyday one for lunch, for dinner and for before bedtime. Her soups have different benefits - for hair, for the spine the first week (especially good 'cos I had epidural), moisturizing, for blood etc.



    Suggested I pump one breast and feed bb the other since the milk will go to waste. She spoonfeed the expressed milk at night so I don't have to get up for one feeding, hence more rest [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

    Also my storage now quite alot, can even feed my no1



    Not kaypoh, won't probe into your affairs, even when massage lady comes also leaves you alone and takes care of bb and prepares lunch while you enjoy your massage.



    Can talk to you about her many experiences so that time passes etc. Shares with you her knowledge.



    She does 30days and has handled twins, both breastfeeding and formula babies.



    Interested just PM me lah [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

  9. sillylady

    sillylady New Member

    Hi

    I would like to recommend this cl agency which my sis used before, my sis and her family are very pleased and appreciate with their service. can call her for more detail 90899426 or nannyconfinement@hotmail.com

  10. summerbear

    summerbear New Member

    hi lisa tan,i am kneen in getting a confinement lady during march time,wat is the charges for twins & is the lady local?

  11. xuangoh

    xuangoh Member

    My confinement lady is also quite good. She is called Xin Hua. She has 20 years' experience. She can cook a variety of confinement food (including soups and tonics), can take care of baby and do simple housechores for you if you don't have a maid. She is very pro-breastfeeding and can do breast massage too. I had quite a hard time breastfeeding my first kid and she is really a great help. She also has quite a few experiences wif twins.....

    You can contact her at +60176088006 (M'sia no.) or +6590395121 (Singapore HP). Btw, she is a PR and hence, don't need a work permit to work

  12. cliniq6666

    cliniq6666 New Member

    cheaper milk source for mummies with twins!



    sg source..COD!



    all sg source from the clinic..



    COD..









    stage 1 milk available too!



    Thanks



    Milkmilksupply

    http://www.babyandmilksupply.blogspot.com/

    Facebook: milkmilksupply@gmail.com (add me to ur FB)





    Order form:





    Name:

    Contact number:

    Email address:

    Milk Type(Weight)/No. of tins (eg:Enfalac A+(900g)/13 tins):

    Delivery address(if applicable) ($7 per delivery):





    Collection points:

    1. Clementi West Street 1 Blk 606 (near to West Coast plaza)

    2. Jurong West Ave 5, Blk 723 (after 3pm)

    3. Hougang St 92, Blk 941 Loading Bay (Appointment only - sat morning 945am / 1115am)





    Once we received your orders, we will advise you on the delivery/collection date&time.

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