. : Extra Marital Relationship 宿世姻缘与出轨 : .
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KitKatBreak
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Many PRCs are wracking up families and relationships in Singapore. They come in to Singapore through all means as phantom workers or even students... Can't there be anything to be done to stop them from coming?
Sadly .... no.
I am not critical or trying to be rude. The ba zi thingey is contradictory to me. If ba zi no good why did two people come together? Due to fate? If it's fated, then what has it gotta do with ba zi?
If you are born with good ba zi, then whatever shit you do is always shun shun one.
I believe more in fate and destiny than all these ba zi. No matter what you do, you cannot change fate. But you can do things to yourself to improve your overall well-being. Like one of the forumers, Moorspa, once advised in another thread. She is strong, she accepted her life, and she improve without the need of her unfaithful husband.
My husband once told me ... 不要怪我对你不好,要怪就怪你的命不好,嫁的不好.
I admit I am not perfect, but I have been a good, dutiful wife and mother to my kids. Even my husband admit that, but still he womanise.
But on the other hand, there are other things that are more 顺 for me. Only that my marriage is no good. I have tried my best, but there are still many women outside to tempt men, and men are ever-so-ready willing parties to accept them?
You think that after telling these cheapo men that you have 踩到烂桃花,they will stop. No way!
One can seek inner peace on one's own. Just learn to accept that this is your life, this is your fate, your destiny. Once you learn to accept things are what they are, you will learn to let go.
I am not critical or trying to be rude. The ba zi thingey is contradictory to me. If ba zi no good why did two people come together? Due to fate? If it's fated, then what has it gotta do with ba zi?
If you are born with good ba zi, then whatever shit you do is always shun shun one.
I believe more in fate and destiny than all these ba zi. No matter what you do, you cannot change fate. But you can do things to yourself to improve your overall well-being. Like one of the forumers, Moorspa, once advised in another thread. She is strong, she accepted her life, and she improve without the need of her unfaithful husband.
My husband once told me ... 不要怪我对你不好,要怪就怪你的命不好,嫁的不好.
I admit I am not perfect, but I have been a good, dutiful wife and mother to my kids. Even my husband admit that, but still he womanise.
But on the other hand, there are other things that are more 顺 for me. Only that my marriage is no good. I have tried my best, but there are still many women outside to tempt men, and men are ever-so-ready willing parties to accept them?
You think that after telling these cheapo men that you have 踩到烂桃花,they will stop. No way!
One can seek inner peace on one's own. Just learn to accept that this is your life, this is your fate, your destiny. Once you learn to accept things are what they are, you will learn to let go.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
Dear Madam Michilin (michilin),
The problem already exist. Government long knew but there's no definite solution to stop these PRC women from entering Singapore unless they have criminal record in China or Singapore.
Singapore is still giving free PR like water until today. Singapore is the first and only country in the world offering free permanent residency for aliens. The 7 millions population white paper passed through earlier this year, despite many of us protested.
Nonetheless, there is big event tomorrow to be held at Hong Lim Park!
Anyway, those being repatriated will be marked. Particularly, those who were caught illegal prostituting while on social visitor/student visa will forever be blacklisted. One thing is guaranteed that these blacklistees are unable to get Singapore P.R. not matter how hard they tried.
However, a person being blacklisted by ICA may not be a deterrence against a blacklistee from entering Singapore.
Still, there is a possible way which may able to cause them (referring to PRC people) blacklisted and it is ICA discretion not to disclose anything. I am afraid PR holders are even more difficult to deal and MHA has never been executing any revokcation of PR status to anybody after Ex-SIA Captain Ryan Goh incident.
May be, mummies should file a petition for revokcation of PR identity against those interfere marriage/family before Year 2016 election.
The above reliable source is from my school cohort who finished his scholarship bond with M.H.A
The problem already exist. Government long knew but there's no definite solution to stop these PRC women from entering Singapore unless they have criminal record in China or Singapore.
Singapore is still giving free PR like water until today. Singapore is the first and only country in the world offering free permanent residency for aliens. The 7 millions population white paper passed through earlier this year, despite many of us protested.
Anyway, those being repatriated will be marked. Particularly, those who were caught illegal prostituting while on social visitor/student visa will forever be blacklisted. One thing is guaranteed that these blacklistees are unable to get Singapore P.R. not matter how hard they tried.
However, a person being blacklisted by ICA may not be a deterrence against a blacklistee from entering Singapore.
Still, there is a possible way which may able to cause them (referring to PRC people) blacklisted and it is ICA discretion not to disclose anything. I am afraid PR holders are even more difficult to deal and MHA has never been executing any revokcation of PR status to anybody after Ex-SIA Captain Ryan Goh incident.
May be, mummies should file a petition for revokcation of PR identity against those interfere marriage/family before Year 2016 election.
The above reliable source is from my school cohort who finished his scholarship bond with M.H.A
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
我有份朝九晚五的工作.
In this forum, I am voluntarily helping single, poor mummies and married couples.
八字论命用途很多，其一可用来检讨自己/自我反省，也可以了解一个人的性格/人品/健康等等。
八字论命（紫微斗数、子平推命）用在婚姻方面，可以知道对方（丈夫/太太）是否丈夫疼爱老婆、水性杨花、红杏出墙、淫欲滥交、招风影碟、夫妇生育能力、旺夫贵子等等。甚至，更加明显的，可以看出离婚命。只要八字排的正确，再细心研究便会水落石出。
我能在命理、民俗以及信仰上的范围提出个人看法以及分享经历。同时，希望能提供安慰、鼓励、破除迷信、纠正负面思维等，而最终是导人向善。能帮的尽量帮就是了。
在外面找人是收费的，这里咨询完全免费。呵呵 ...
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KitKatBreak
Member
Dear Jolyon,
Seems that you are pretty well versed in this area. I have not get my bazi interpreted before. How are you able to help?
Seems that you are pretty well versed in this area. I have not get my bazi interpreted before. How are you able to help?
toblerone
Well-Known Member
FAQ POST
问：Husband has unwanted blossom, how to get rid?
答：我知道很多太太心急要想办法赶走狐狸精、或者不要老公滥交或到处找女人。然而，采取法律行动对付狐狸精是有一定的帮助。但是，这治标不治本。因为，丈夫始终沉迷于女色或者男人。最后，妇女们逼于无奈走向三条路 <font face="symbol">Þ</font> 离婚、接受、自杀。
民俗学普遍上有四种可以克制桃花，参考以下：
第一. 旁门左道（Taoism/Thai/Islamic sorcery）几乎99%有效。丈夫会回心转意，夫妇感情起死回生大有可望。
(1) 收费不便宜。不可轻易亲信，因为骗财骗色太多了。
(2) 本人吃长素，从不鼓励使用旁门左道。即使，丈夫真的要离开妻儿，是夫妇前世的缘以及先辈的业。妻子或者丈夫若对不起配偶，有他/她会面对因果。丈夫不信因果，继续迷恋美色，寻花问柳，子孙得承受报应。
*孩子一出世，到底有没有美满的婚姻，细观八字、紫微斗数，便能一目了然。孩子的出世，不只是宝宝的前世，也取决于父母以及先辈的业力。父母以及先辈若做得好，后代子孙家门余庆、合家平安。
第二. 家居风水。这方面不见得的有效。
夫妇生不出孩子、家人无故发疯、身体常不适、常常发生意外 - 在家居/祖坟风水学可以做出调整。风水不是万能的。怎么说呢？比如：家里给人看了风水，布了“发大财”格局，主人不做工游手好闲，吃喝嫖赌成性，财神爷关顾这家人才怪！
第三. 老婆要倒追老公、离开新加坡到另一个地方生活。以易经六四卦，取之“砍”桃花的特象。在机缘巧合之下，曾看过一、两个成功例子。
第四. 最没有人做的、最没有人相信、最没不受欢迎、最令人讨厌的，就是“念经”。念经回向非常耗时、对很多人来说非常不耐烦。
若本人连阴魂不散的冤鬼都对付不了的话，绝对不瞎掰念经回向。
坚决要维持婚姻，把狐狸精弄走，真的要下定决心念经作功课。Definitly, no short cut. 婚姻的裂痕修复，就好像time consuming anti-cancer treatment。念经即是同样道理，需要时间来偿还，心急看不到效果。
问：Husband has unwanted blossom, how to get rid?
答：我知道很多太太心急要想办法赶走狐狸精、或者不要老公滥交或到处找女人。然而，采取法律行动对付狐狸精是有一定的帮助。但是，这治标不治本。因为，丈夫始终沉迷于女色或者男人。最后，妇女们逼于无奈走向三条路 <font face="symbol">Þ</font> 离婚、接受、自杀。
民俗学普遍上有四种可以克制桃花，参考以下：
第一. 旁门左道（Taoism/Thai/Islamic sorcery）几乎99%有效。丈夫会回心转意，夫妇感情起死回生大有可望。
(1) 收费不便宜。不可轻易亲信，因为骗财骗色太多了。
(2) 本人吃长素，从不鼓励使用旁门左道。即使，丈夫真的要离开妻儿，是夫妇前世的缘以及先辈的业。妻子或者丈夫若对不起配偶，有他/她会面对因果。丈夫不信因果，继续迷恋美色，寻花问柳，子孙得承受报应。
*孩子一出世，到底有没有美满的婚姻，细观八字、紫微斗数，便能一目了然。孩子的出世，不只是宝宝的前世，也取决于父母以及先辈的业力。父母以及先辈若做得好，后代子孙家门余庆、合家平安。
第二. 家居风水。这方面不见得的有效。
夫妇生不出孩子、家人无故发疯、身体常不适、常常发生意外 - 在家居/祖坟风水学可以做出调整。风水不是万能的。怎么说呢？比如：家里给人看了风水，布了“发大财”格局，主人不做工游手好闲，吃喝嫖赌成性，财神爷关顾这家人才怪！
第三. 老婆要倒追老公、离开新加坡到另一个地方生活。以易经六四卦，取之“砍”桃花的特象。在机缘巧合之下，曾看过一、两个成功例子。
第四. 最没有人做的、最没有人相信、最没不受欢迎、最令人讨厌的，就是“念经”。念经回向非常耗时、对很多人来说非常不耐烦。
坚决要维持婚姻，把狐狸精弄走，真的要下定决心念经作功课。Definitly, no short cut. 婚姻的裂痕修复，就好像time consuming anti-cancer treatment。念经即是同样道理，需要时间来偿还，心急看不到效果。
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idealmaple
Member
Which 经文 will you suggest one to 念 and 回向?
idealmaple
Member
Hi Jolyon,
Which 经文 will you suggest one to 念 and 回向?
Copy 经文 by hand and 回向 will help?
Which 经文 will you suggest one to 念 and 回向?
Copy 经文 by hand and 回向 will help?
KitKatBreak
Member
姻缘不好，回向要怎么做呢？
toblerone
Well-Known Member
Dear Mrs Thomas ,
Sorry for the late reply. I have been busy with work as well as answering queries on 注生娘娘 thread. 1 2
Younger generation before marriage 不管三七二十一，after marriage 要闹离婚出了问题才来看八字，未免太迟了吧？
我曾苦口婆心劝过不少不适合生活在一起的人，不要注册结婚，结果当成耳边风。等到闹离婚，才想起我说过的金玉良言，悔不当初。真的让我哭不得，笑也不是。不过，要是情侣是天造之和，我一定会衷心祝福。
Thank you for your trust providing your detail! See edited bazi picture below:
八字日元论：
男命 - 日元强
喜用神论：
正财格。用神为‘食伤’、喜神为‘财星’
忌神：‘金’、‘土’
女命 - 日元偏弱
喜用神论：
正财格。用神为‘印’、喜神为‘比劫’
忌神：‘水’、‘木’
在命理上，夫妇八字有互补。
1. 女命（妻子）吸引男命（丈夫）因为丈夫缺‘水’、‘木’
2. 男命（丈夫）吸引女命（妻子）因为妻子缺‘火’、‘土’
以上三元大卦合婚法，中等婚姻。只有一点的小克罢了，无大碍的。中等婚姻，并不代表不会离婚，这只是一个结合度方针。
你请人看八字，恐怕需要付几百块。或许得到的结论是模糊不清。
老师看了你们的八字，比什么人都了解你们。我在十分钟认识你，绝对不会输给认识你十年的朋友，我有十足把握了解你丈夫。
关于妻子
1. 青春时期，异性缘不错。
2. 个方面人缘佳，甚至也有贵人缘。一生当中，不论出了什么大大小小的事，都有人帮忙。
3. 工作运佳！不折不扣的工作狂。
4. 特别爱面子。
5. 容易产生精神压力。
6. 照顾人，是个好人。
关于丈夫
1. 真的很有钱！
2. Management, systematic, 办事能力强！
3. 人缘（人脉关系特佳）。
4. 如果有疾病的话，得注意阴虚不足、肾脏、膀胱、尿道、痔疮等等。2017年以后，身体状况走下坡。
5. 今年开始有外遇倾向。
即使你不说，我大概能了解夫妻之间发生了什么事。
第一. 妻子个方面都好，却与夫家的关系不和。
第二. 夫妻双方都会和另一半吵架的迹象。
第三. 最大原因是孩子的问题！丈夫基因不错，有条件生出贵子。要是他在外面找到小三给他生的话，那就不妙了。
结婚的时候，就要赶快了生。怎么拖到这个时候呢？其实，你是受到各方面的困扰，才产生精神压力！我说的没错吧？关于你自己、老公、夫家的关系、生育等各方面我都指出来了。从三大方面用心着手一一解决，就能看得到曙光。我在命理能帮助你就只有这么多。To be frank, I am afraid marriage counseling is not going to help because s/he can't see real indepth between both of you.
总的来说，要立即破解这个方法，恐怕不容易。
第一 看风水调理居家/环境磁场（要花钱，而且又要找到有料的）那些刊登大广告的就要小心了。
第二 下定决心吃斋念佛，缓和一切（信不信由你）
最后，我的解希望你满意
Sorry for the late reply. I have been busy with work as well as answering queries on 注生娘娘 thread. 1 2
Younger generation before marriage 不管三七二十一，after marriage 要闹离婚出了问题才来看八字，未免太迟了吧？
我曾苦口婆心劝过不少不适合生活在一起的人，不要注册结婚，结果当成耳边风。等到闹离婚，才想起我说过的金玉良言，悔不当初。真的让我哭不得，笑也不是。不过，要是情侣是天造之和，我一定会衷心祝福。
Thank you for your trust providing your detail! See edited bazi picture below:
八字日元论：
男命 - 日元强
喜用神论：
正财格。用神为‘食伤’、喜神为‘财星’
忌神：‘金’、‘土’
女命 - 日元偏弱
喜用神论：
正财格。用神为‘印’、喜神为‘比劫’
忌神：‘水’、‘木’
在命理上，夫妇八字有互补。
1. 女命（妻子）吸引男命（丈夫）因为丈夫缺‘水’、‘木’
2. 男命（丈夫）吸引女命（妻子）因为妻子缺‘火’、‘土’
以上三元大卦合婚法，中等婚姻。只有一点的小克罢了，无大碍的。中等婚姻，并不代表不会离婚，这只是一个结合度方针。
你请人看八字，恐怕需要付几百块。或许得到的结论是模糊不清。
老师看了你们的八字，比什么人都了解你们。我在十分钟认识你，绝对不会输给认识你十年的朋友，我有十足把握了解你丈夫。
关于妻子
1. 青春时期，异性缘不错。
2. 个方面人缘佳，甚至也有贵人缘。一生当中，不论出了什么大大小小的事，都有人帮忙。
3. 工作运佳！不折不扣的工作狂。
4. 特别爱面子。
5. 容易产生精神压力。
6. 照顾人，是个好人。
关于丈夫
1. 真的很有钱！
2. Management, systematic, 办事能力强！
3. 人缘（人脉关系特佳）。
4. 如果有疾病的话，得注意阴虚不足、肾脏、膀胱、尿道、痔疮等等。2017年以后，身体状况走下坡。
5. 今年开始有外遇倾向。
即使你不说，我大概能了解夫妻之间发生了什么事。
第一. 妻子个方面都好，却与夫家的关系不和。
第二. 夫妻双方都会和另一半吵架的迹象。
第三. 最大原因是孩子的问题！丈夫基因不错，有条件生出贵子。要是他在外面找到小三给他生的话，那就不妙了。
结婚的时候，就要赶快了生。怎么拖到这个时候呢？其实，你是受到各方面的困扰，才产生精神压力！我说的没错吧？关于你自己、老公、夫家的关系、生育等各方面我都指出来了。从三大方面用心着手一一解决，就能看得到曙光。我在命理能帮助你就只有这么多。To be frank, I am afraid marriage counseling is not going to help because s/he can't see real indepth between both of you.
总的来说，要立即破解这个方法，恐怕不容易。
第一 看风水调理居家/环境磁场（要花钱，而且又要找到有料的）那些刊登大广告的就要小心了。
第二 下定决心吃斋念佛，缓和一切（信不信由你）
最后，我的解希望你满意
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mumagain
Member
Hi Jolyon,
Read many of your post. Find it really valuable and your friendly advise does help me understand more about 因果，佛。。等。。
When I was young, born in an avg family with 8 children. There's no such believe in getting our 8zi to create our name. Dad is the only one that gave us all our name.
Recently, I am so concern over my eldest sister situation. She's the eldest daughter in the family. Age 51. All the while I feel that she doesn't has any 好姻缘。
她在30多岁时有过一段姻缘。结果背上了一屁股债。搞到几乎破产。结果老爸卖车帮忙。经了解之后，得知男友都在用她的钱生活。就等于吃软饭。姐却心甘情愿的付出。就因为这段情，姐过了好长一段时间（3/4年）才走出来。过后的10多年来，我觉得她过得还算不错。无忧无虑，一个人过日子。多半是和朋友们或姐妹们相聚。自花自挣的钱。
然而，就在去年，她却认识了一个大她3岁离过婚的男人Mr.D。平时就不爱存钱的她（自花自挣的钱）现在有了到处借钱的迹象。我从她身边朋友得知，这男的都在花她的钱。出门吃，喝，玩，乐，买烟酒给这男的，都是姐在付。我曾苦口婆心劝过，不少朋友也曾给于劝告，都没听进我姐的耳里。想尽办法，还是行不通。这让我开始怀疑不知道是不是姐在命理或八字里有这些劫。眼看她步入老年，却一再步入危机。真的无法不视。
以因果的角度来看，姐相似在还债。所以想听听您的指点，希望能够停止她再一次的伤害，也不想看到姐老来受苦。觉得不值得。
谢谢帮忙。
Read many of your post. Find it really valuable and your friendly advise does help me understand more about 因果，佛。。等。。
When I was young, born in an avg family with 8 children. There's no such believe in getting our 8zi to create our name. Dad is the only one that gave us all our name.
Recently, I am so concern over my eldest sister situation. She's the eldest daughter in the family. Age 51. All the while I feel that she doesn't has any 好姻缘。
她在30多岁时有过一段姻缘。结果背上了一屁股债。搞到几乎破产。结果老爸卖车帮忙。经了解之后，得知男友都在用她的钱生活。就等于吃软饭。姐却心甘情愿的付出。就因为这段情，姐过了好长一段时间（3/4年）才走出来。过后的10多年来，我觉得她过得还算不错。无忧无虑，一个人过日子。多半是和朋友们或姐妹们相聚。自花自挣的钱。
然而，就在去年，她却认识了一个大她3岁离过婚的男人Mr.D。平时就不爱存钱的她（自花自挣的钱）现在有了到处借钱的迹象。我从她身边朋友得知，这男的都在花她的钱。出门吃，喝，玩，乐，买烟酒给这男的，都是姐在付。我曾苦口婆心劝过，不少朋友也曾给于劝告，都没听进我姐的耳里。想尽办法，还是行不通。这让我开始怀疑不知道是不是姐在命理或八字里有这些劫。眼看她步入老年，却一再步入危机。真的无法不视。
以因果的角度来看，姐相似在还债。所以想听听您的指点，希望能够停止她再一次的伤害，也不想看到姐老来受苦。觉得不值得。
谢谢帮忙。
mummybaby2
New Member
Dear Jolyn,
I need advise on my marriage. I tried to using 紫微斗数 myself but I dont understand it at all. I also wanna to go let fortune tellers see but I'm afraid I may went to a con one.
Could you please help and advise me? I dont know why Buddha/God always choose me to go thru extra affairs on my marriages? I really want my marriage and wanna to protect my kids from been single family too.
I need advise on my marriage. I tried to using 紫微斗数 myself but I dont understand it at all. I also wanna to go let fortune tellers see but I'm afraid I may went to a con one.
Could you please help and advise me? I dont know why Buddha/God always choose me to go thru extra affairs on my marriages? I really want my marriage and wanna to protect my kids from been single family too.
Dear Jolyon - i hope to get me n my husband's bazi interpreted too. aprpeciate if you can advise what information do you need? We are going through a very rough patch, with finance, his affair and most probably a divorce. I hope i can still save this marriage for we have 2 kids.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
以前的人是随便给孩子命名的。
明白你的意思。这个年头做不成夫妻的，司空见惯。
很有姐姐的心！看得出你为姐姐的事操心。
在命理学上，多少是能够看得出人生的‘命运’。
已悉读你所写的，存在着互相欠债的关系。
凡在男女/朋友之间纠缠不清，在命理与因果归纳于‘互欠’。
做个比喻，你无心随地丢了垃圾，结果不幸被逮着，判在大街上“劳改”扫地。那么，你认为可以有亲人/朋友代替吗？个人的业力，得要她亲自来了结。
她若醒悟，跳出小筐筐还是有的救。就像新加坡Changi Prison释放出来的囚犯，有不少持着洗心革面的念头。犯人面壁思过，强迫他接受环境的改变，自然有正面的影响，重新开始。
‘停止她再一次的伤害’ - 恐怕阻止不了。必须由她本人觉悟才行。即使不用命理解剖，旁观者略懂将会有什么事发生的话，你说能帮得了吗？
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mummybaby2
New Member
Dear Jolyon,
I would like to know more about myself. I have been trying to read but still not very clear. Are you able to help me? Thanks
I would like to know more about myself. I have been trying to read but still not very clear. Are you able to help me? Thanks
whitewindy
Member
Hi Jolyon,
I wanna know 世上真的有因果报应?
I know some ppl break up ppl marriages or purposely come to destroy their marriage and end up the couple have scars in their marriage.
Some even come up with lies to tell the wives that is false and makes the wife goes berserk.
Why aren't they getting retribution?
I wanna know 世上真的有因果报应?
I know some ppl break up ppl marriages or purposely come to destroy their marriage and end up the couple have scars in their marriage.
Some even come up with lies to tell the wives that is false and makes the wife goes berserk.
Why aren't they getting retribution?
KitKatBreak
Member
Dear Jolyon,
Based on your quote below earlier, I would appreciate if you could enlighten how to go about doing it.
Still, there is a possible way which may able to cause them (referring to PRC people) blacklisted and it is ICA discretion not to disclose anything. I am afraid PR holders are even more difficult to deal and MHA has never been executing any revokcation of PR status to anybody after Ex-SIA Captain Ryan Goh incident.
Thank you.
Based on your quote below earlier, I would appreciate if you could enlighten how to go about doing it.
Still, there is a possible way which may able to cause them (referring to PRC people) blacklisted and it is ICA discretion not to disclose anything. I am afraid PR holders are even more difficult to deal and MHA has never been executing any revokcation of PR status to anybody after Ex-SIA Captain Ryan Goh incident.
Thank you.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
以你之前所写的，她慢慢从阴霾里走出来，是她对自己的心灵修复，同时也在慢慢的反省。那个阶段，就是在自觉反省。要不然，也不会拖到3-4年才走出来。要她再一次的觉醒，看样子得要再收一次大刺激才行。个人的层次不一样，个人的觉醒程度不同。
你姐和不该认识的人交往，是她的造化。对方要得到好处，所以苦苦纠缠。我能体谅你姐心灵上的空虚，在她的世界里，她认为找到最佳志同道合的朋友，也就这样对他不离不弃。
除此之外，她不肯帮自己摆脱他，家人怎么帮得了她呢? 除非，是她意力坚定，决定要她甩他。
在命理时运方面，一个人八字命无带桃花时，若逢桃花运，异性缘会好起来。这种现象，也只是短暂罢了。同样的，一位女性美若天仙很多追求者，不一定就能嫁得出，一旦错过姻缘，再也嫁不出了。
你希望姐姐何时会有转机，恐怕得要等...
第一. 等时间‘自救’（自觉反省）。
第二. 等时机‘了解虐缘’。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
You are right. I agree.
帮也帮不完，实在太多了。我迫不得已得temporary disable private messaging. Very often, I received mummies seeking for help.
我是真的不忍心看到夫妇吵架，吵到天翻地覆，家都快要散了。夫妇闹不合分家，孩子小小很可怜的。
夫妇正在吵架，我是外人不能多嘴。我只能在吵完架之后，等怒气消了从旁稍微指点。
我工作忙，帮你解答得要有空。
妇女要怀孕、胎儿性别盘算、拜神求子、孕妇避忌、孩子命名、择日生产、幼儿健康、夫妇婚姻、求签解答、民俗信仰等等问题很多，我一个人应付不过来。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
100%肯定有! The word "karma" is not restricted to Buddhism. 实际上，很多宗教有谈起‘业报’。
夫妇受到外者影响闹离婚，跟前世扯不开。前世与夫妇有过节，今世来向夫妇报仇，不是没有可能的。
‘报应’交由上天安排。蓄意拆散、恶搞破坏、劝人离婚这等都在“等时间”，差别就在于轻或重罢了。甚至，marriage counsellor乱给提议，害夫妇离婚，下场好不到哪里去。
I have contributed a number of posts (与报应有关) :
难道，希望对方撞断一条腿，或者，中cancer才甘心？
果报时辰未到罢了! 好报、恶报不会那么快现出来的。报应马上到的话，天下太平了喔。就算对方的报应来了，也不会通知你。
在民俗信仰上，是可以向神明禀报，请求神明见证评理。一五一十说出委屈，不可有半点怨恨心。神明要不要处理，自有定数。若神明插手，不可再向神明求情。故此，建议不要乱说话。不要小看家附近的庙宇，附近发生命案，神明会知道。我不多说，信不信由你。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
Dear Madam Tan,
我于心不忍，帮你一把吧！我工作时间忙，所以得要等到我有空才能回复。我得要时间翻你们夫妻的紫薇命盘。
男命
八字日元论：
男命 - 日元弱
喜用神论：
偏财格。用神为‘印’、喜神为‘比劫’
忌神：‘水’、‘木’
女命
八字日元论：
女命 - 日元强
喜用神论：
建禄格。用神为‘食伤’、喜神为‘财’
忌神：‘水’、‘金’
关于丈夫：
1. 受欢迎！
2. 说话很过分。很爱撒谎。是非多。
3. 家里会因为丈夫有外遇事件而给你（妻子）压力，可是丈夫是个很会说谎的男人，也不会认错
4. 妻子有帮夫运
5. 丈夫自私
6. 丈夫决定的事情很难去改变，因为他是很固执的人
7. 很难去左右丈夫的决定，因为他真的讲不听
8. 对外，工作能力强（今年不错）
9. 对内，在家有点点懒
10. 脾气暴躁。
关于妻子：
1. 外表长得蛮漂亮 - 男人女人都要多看你几眼。
2. 朋友多！贵人多！当你遇到问题的时候，帮忙你的人会出现。还有，桃花多！还没结婚之前，追求者超多！
3. 非常注重家庭 - 你若不注重家庭，我才懒得理。
4. 感情上常有问题 - 还没有结婚之前，早就有这种烦恼了。
5. 家里问题影响 - 很多问题都是从家里发生的。你自己想看看。
6. 赚钱困难 - 钱从你口袋出去快，是不是总觉得钱进口袋很慢呢？
7. 常为人劳心劳力- 你的钱每次花在别人身上。
8. 工作是非多 - 少说话，安静最好
9. 对丈夫不错 - 只是你丈夫不知道。
10.稍微有情绪化 - 好好控制你自己
其实，你还有不少秘密。因道德关系，不便提也没有必要写出来。上面指出来的问题所在，是要你改进自己，调整自己。
你目前最大的问题不是婚姻，而是你的健康。你曾经进医院动过手术！你的身体最近很不好，是你吃过的肉都找上你了。你的病时好时坏，在拉红色警报了。难道你不知道吗？
命运多么坎坷，吃斋念经是可以‘掰得直’。不信这套的话，我不强迫。人生将继续痛苦难耐，承受不了压力就选择结束生命。
我于心不忍，帮你一把吧！我工作时间忙，所以得要等到我有空才能回复。我得要时间翻你们夫妻的紫薇命盘。
男命
八字日元论：
男命 - 日元弱
喜用神论：
偏财格。用神为‘印’、喜神为‘比劫’
忌神：‘水’、‘木’
八字日元论：
女命 - 日元强
喜用神论：
建禄格。用神为‘食伤’、喜神为‘财’
忌神：‘水’、‘金’
关于丈夫：
1. 受欢迎！
2. 说话很过分。很爱撒谎。是非多。
3. 家里会因为丈夫有外遇事件而给你（妻子）压力，可是丈夫是个很会说谎的男人，也不会认错
4. 妻子有帮夫运
5. 丈夫自私
6. 丈夫决定的事情很难去改变，因为他是很固执的人
7. 很难去左右丈夫的决定，因为他真的讲不听
8. 对外，工作能力强（今年不错）
9. 对内，在家有点点懒
10. 脾气暴躁。
关于妻子：
1. 外表长得蛮漂亮 - 男人女人都要多看你几眼。
2. 朋友多！贵人多！当你遇到问题的时候，帮忙你的人会出现。还有，桃花多！还没结婚之前，追求者超多！
3. 非常注重家庭 - 你若不注重家庭，我才懒得理。
4. 感情上常有问题 - 还没有结婚之前，早就有这种烦恼了。
5. 家里问题影响 - 很多问题都是从家里发生的。你自己想看看。
6. 赚钱困难 - 钱从你口袋出去快，是不是总觉得钱进口袋很慢呢？
7. 常为人劳心劳力- 你的钱每次花在别人身上。
8. 工作是非多 - 少说话，安静最好
9. 对丈夫不错 - 只是你丈夫不知道。
10.稍微有情绪化 - 好好控制你自己
其实，你还有不少秘密。因道德关系，不便提也没有必要写出来。上面指出来的问题所在，是要你改进自己，调整自己。
你目前最大的问题不是婚姻，而是你的健康。你曾经进医院动过手术！你的身体最近很不好，是你吃过的肉都找上你了。你的病时好时坏，在拉红色警报了。难道你不知道吗？
命运多么坎坷，吃斋念经是可以‘掰得直’。不信这套的话，我不强迫。人生将继续痛苦难耐，承受不了压力就选择结束生命。
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whitewindy
Member
Hi Jolyon,
I have some problems but I do not wish to disclose here.
Would you mind pm me so I can ask as for some advice?
Thanks in advance.
I have some problems but I do not wish to disclose here.
Would you mind pm me so I can ask as for some advice?
Thanks in advance.
mummybaby2
New Member
Dear Jolyn,
I really need your help. Please help me thru.
Thanks
I really need your help. Please help me thru.
Thanks
Jolyon
For my case, there isn't any more argument. The husband chose to move out, his heart is bent on not staying in the marriage. We are in this situation since Feb, so you see its been months. Probably there is no 3rd party at the moment, i manage to drive her out of the equation, but it does not solve things between us. Thus, i am curious to see what is with the bazi, my husband has been keeping things to himself for very long.
For my case, there isn't any more argument. The husband chose to move out, his heart is bent on not staying in the marriage. We are in this situation since Feb, so you see its been months. Probably there is no 3rd party at the moment, i manage to drive her out of the equation, but it does not solve things between us. Thus, i am curious to see what is with the bazi, my husband has been keeping things to himself for very long.
scatterbrain
Member
Dear Jolyon,
Need your help to help me understand more about my son's condition. Please PM me when you are free to help. Thanks.
Need your help to help me understand more about my son's condition. Please PM me when you are free to help. Thanks.
a_n_a
Active Member
hi jolyon,
previously when i went to Taiwan for holiday with my gf. there's this shop selling "tian lu" . they calculated my name and his name.they said he will always has "xiao san" (means 3rd party) issues.
My marriage was in crisis that time (last year). we were in the mist of filing divorce and during the final stage, i backed out and decided to give him and our marriage another chance.
i seriously have no faith and very scared and since i make this choice, i will try my best.
i read that 念经回向 would help ? can u enlighten me how ?
previously when i went to Taiwan for holiday with my gf. there's this shop selling "tian lu" . they calculated my name and his name.they said he will always has "xiao san" (means 3rd party) issues.
My marriage was in crisis that time (last year). we were in the mist of filing divorce and during the final stage, i backed out and decided to give him and our marriage another chance.
i seriously have no faith and very scared and since i make this choice, i will try my best.
i read that 念经回向 would help ? can u enlighten me how ?
unmeltablesweet
Member
I see that there is alot of Mummy is asking Jolyn to help.
Actually, here is my personal take....
I have learn basic fengshui, face reading and BaZhi. How many of the so-called masters out there can learn and put to practice what they learn and put it to a test..
I myself did it. I am a walking testimontial. I am selecting a Bazhi for my #3. I selected a house myself and foreseeing the things to happen in the months to come. I take my friends house and life to see. I help them choose a good house to stay. I can even predict what can happen to my friends in the coming month. Let them be my testimontial, let them do the talking that my theories worked and not hearsay nor buying of items.
Face Reading - the power of understanding one's character upon first meet up. In business, you would have to be very careful of scheming person. In making friends, you know who are real and fake.
For more info, please see the website: http://www.artofeasternscience.com/
Or you may wish to PM me and I will answer to all your queries at night when my kids are sleeping.
Actually, here is my personal take....
I have learn basic fengshui, face reading and BaZhi. How many of the so-called masters out there can learn and put to practice what they learn and put it to a test..
I myself did it. I am a walking testimontial. I am selecting a Bazhi for my #3. I selected a house myself and foreseeing the things to happen in the months to come. I take my friends house and life to see. I help them choose a good house to stay. I can even predict what can happen to my friends in the coming month. Let them be my testimontial, let them do the talking that my theories worked and not hearsay nor buying of items.
Face Reading - the power of understanding one's character upon first meet up. In business, you would have to be very careful of scheming person. In making friends, you know who are real and fake.
For more info, please see the website: http://www.artofeasternscience.com/
Or you may wish to PM me and I will answer to all your queries at night when my kids are sleeping.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
老师吃长素，没有命赚缺德钱。而助人是分文不取。就因为这样，人人要免费。
自己因工作忙，来求助的不少，老师只能簺选，迫不得已disabled private messaging.
老师所接的不只是婚姻亮红灯的case，还有其他的。仅在我能做到范围之内的能力下量力而为。
我是不会介绍或者鼓励人在婚姻有问题的时候看家居风水。不是没有效果，而是改变环境的磁场慢也不是彻底。除此之外，很多风水师没有神通，完全看不见潜在的危机。
在Kembangan的一所洋房的女主人找了有知名度的风水师（打广的风水师）看房子，被刮了好几万($)，装修费还没算。邻居说夫妇孩子住不到一年就离婚，孩子发生事。
外观装修的很普错也很美观。走到邻居的backyard，站在凳子上看了对方的后院。亲眼看到清清楚楚，这下真是完旦了！相信不是改过后风水的问题，而是房子本来就有问题了。想知道真正的原因吗？
我愿意分享我的经验。
See next post below.
自己因工作忙，来求助的不少，老师只能簺选，迫不得已disabled private messaging.
老师所接的不只是婚姻亮红灯的case，还有其他的。仅在我能做到范围之内的能力下量力而为。
你知道就好。
看得出你在打广告。服务不是免费。Consultation cost money!
我是不会介绍或者鼓励人在婚姻有问题的时候看家居风水。不是没有效果，而是改变环境的磁场慢也不是彻底。除此之外，很多风水师没有神通，完全看不见潜在的危机。
在Kembangan的一所洋房的女主人找了有知名度的风水师（打广的风水师）看房子，被刮了好几万($)，装修费还没算。邻居说夫妇孩子住不到一年就离婚，孩子发生事。
外观装修的很普错也很美观。走到邻居的backyard，站在凳子上看了对方的后院。亲眼看到清清楚楚，这下真是完旦了！相信不是改过后风水的问题，而是房子本来就有问题了。想知道真正的原因吗？
我愿意分享我的经验。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
我是有一大堆事要办。
You've wasted 3-4 months. Otherwise, you can do something to ‘salvage’relationship.
你要看到有变化，就只有准备吃素念经。I mentioned in post no. 327 (click here)
你希望能看得到专机，得要下苦功。No short cut, 路艰难。得照老师的指示作。你肯吗？
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
Husband [男命]
男命 -
1. 健康运差。
2. 猪朋狗友一堆， 对朋友很好。
3. 有钱有小三，没钱小三自然离去。
4. 人缘很好，有桃花。
5. 多两年会不一样，他走好运。
6. 脾气很臭！
7. 铁扫命、花童命、二婚命。（不是好事）
8. 一生起落幅度大。好事坏事统统，不断的来。
9. 天机坐命的人，感情易生变化，很容易被外界影响。第‘三只手’非常明显。
10. 注重孩子。
夫妻之前有个共同点，就是很疼爱小孩。小心把小孩宠坏了。女命工作运不错，可以养活自己。男命女命都有问题。男命则比较糟糕。
先撇开目前婚姻（双方）问题。
女命下半辈子，若幸运地步入另一个人生阶段将会幸福。恕老师不能对你直说。好坏东西要自然接受，不自然接受会拖得久。你要争取未来的幸福阶段，老师可以教你。
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