Wah...sounds similar to my experience. I jus completed my confinement but I fired the CL after 1 week. She is dirty, not hygienic, lazy n full of excuses!
Same as momami's CL, my CL also takes 2hr nap in the afternoon, watch tv, read papers etc... Morning she wakes up at almost 8am cos I take care of baby myself at nite since I'm breastfeeding. She will wake up to make me breakfast den bath the baby. In between she will prepare ingredient for lunch while I take care of bb. If she has time before lunch she will watch tv in the living room or sit in her room to listen radio n read papers. After lunch she will wash up den go n nap around 2pm, waking up at almost 4pm. Wake up Liao contiue to watch tv u til almost dinner time she cook dinner. After dinner wash up then continue to wAtch tv before she go sleep at 9 or 10pm. While I'm 24/7 attending to my baby, she only shower baby once. And all throughout her stay here, she never ever ask if I need help with the bb even when bb is crying loudly. why do I Wanna pay someone $2000 to sit around n watch tv. Even my mum also not so good life lo!
She says she got help to sweep n mop floor but I didn't see, probably I'm in the room but when I ask her why floor still so dirty, she say "it's like tat one" (-.-")
She is dirty cos everything she use, after washing still got food residue. Thepot, pan, ladle, spoon, fork. When i ask y wash still dirty she also say "its like tat one, sometimes cannot see". I even show her a spoon that is still dripping brownish water after she wash. Then she quickly grab it from me and wash again. The table cloth turn from white to grey she also never wash. And when I observe how she change baby after shower, she will wipe her wet hands on her pants den touch baby. The same pants she wipes her hands on while she was cooking n preparing raw food!
The last straw was when she gives me cold milk to feed my baby! I expressed breast milk to store in fridge cos I was having very sore nipple after breastfeeding for a few days. There was one evening when I ask her to help me heat up the milk cos I was carrying bb as she was crying badly. The CL after heating the milk n passed to me, the milk is still cold! And when I ask her does she usually feed infant w cold milk? She quickly find excuse and say "no la, I haven't finish heating up, I wanna heat up some more de". WTH?! She already handed e milk to me obviously she is done with heating n wants to me to feed Liao rite? So I told her off, and she kept quiet. I continue to heat the milk myself n feed my bb. The next morning she was asked to leave. I had a middle man who introduced this CL so I let it to the middle man to talk to her n ask her to leave. I only pay her till the day she work.
In the end I went back to my mum's place to complete my confinement... I rather not have a confinement lady than to have one that gives me prob n headache instead of helping me...