Decnk,
Was like this when she just started school as well Now she able to understand and speak more, so i started to make sure she obey. Even she cry or scream i will ignore her until she cannot stand it. I will make her stand at a corner. Until i see her cool down a little then i will start talking to her. Make sure she remember what i said. Till now she can remember why i punish her.
She can even suddenly cry for nothing. when i ask her what happen or ask her to come to me i want to talk to her and she refuse, Fine... either she get out of the room or i get out.
Previously she can even cry and scream before going out always spoil my mood. and i asked her to HOld my hand when walking and she refused.. I said to her if she don't hold my hand we will go home immediately. Then she start to cry and throw tantrums.
I immediately Carry her home. Then she will cry even louder, I will tell her you can continue crying i will not bring you out until you stop all your nonsenses. Let me know when u stop crying.
Of Cos she won't stop, but at least when she cool down abit i will ask her to come to me and start to tell her, I don't want to see her crying before going out. If she do that again i will not bring her out anymore. And Going out must hold my hand if she refuse to hold i will go home immediately.
From then onwards she dare not throw tantrum before going out.
I will tell her just tell me what you want don't need to cry. I will not understand if she don't speak out.
Just recently she cry for nothing again. Throw her out of the room close the door, let her cry for awhile. hehe very bad right?
Then i ask her come in, i told her when i ask her to stop crying means stop, if she cry somemore i will throw her out of the house.
after all this she start to obey my instructions. Once awhile will disobey, when go home she will get her punishment.
Kellene is just like Charlotte they don't know how to voice out what they want so they use crying.and even screaming.
Initially i will shout and scold her.. but now i will keep my cool and just get her out of my sight until i am cool and she also calm down alittle bit to listen to me.
so i guess this is the only way too stop them being a spoilt brat. The more we scold or shout at them she will cty even louder. Only way is to get her to stand at a corner to continue her cry.
I will tell charlotte to stop throwing her temper.
Now when i question Charlotte, why she like mummy, Mummy so fierce always scold her. She will say becos she make me angry. and why mummy angry? she will say becos she cry.
I will ask her so can she cry for nothings? or Throw Tantrums. She will shake her head and say No.
Guess everyone have different teaching ways. But do remember not to Shout when scolding her she more you shout the louder she will cry.
