hi mummies, thanks so much for looking at my thread. I want to get your opinion urgently. My situation: I accidentaly saw a photo of him and a colleague in his handphone. In the photo, my hubby was holding the camera...he and the girl were standing together, his cheek and her cheek were touching side by side. Both had big smiles and had sparkles in their eyes. When i asked him who it was, he said the girl was fr another team and he even needed some time to remember her name. He got mad at me for making a big deal of this situation in public. I asked him, why did u take this photo? he said, no reason. just a photo. he deleted it. I have never seen a photo of him with another girl like this EXCEPT when he had an affair 3yrs ago with another colleague fr a different company. Since then, we moved to SIngapore and started a family. My love-life history: My hubby already cheated on me before in 2008. Back then we were not yet married. I was not fulfilling his sexual needs when a colleague of his had a serious crush on him and she was very happy to fulfill him sexually. My question is: Am I making a big deal? My husband is in sales and he really has an outgoing friendly personality. Is it 'normal' for a man to take photo this close with a female if she is not special to him? (His phone doesn't have photo of any other female in this pose.) Is this a warning sign that my husband is cheating again? Should I be worried? How should I handle this situation?