singlemomof3
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Attica: IMO, that would be what the men want us to think - that we are physically and emotionally unattractive after childbirth and it is all OUR fault.
Having a child is a life-changing event, not just for the mother, but for the father as well. However, it affects the mother a lot more, since she is the one bearing the pregnancy, labour and more often than not, the childcare.
Man by nature, male or female, is selfish. But women tend to be less selfish, especially with a baby to care for. Men tend to be more selfish, since he is giving up his sole claim on his woman, losing her partially to the child. Some men would step up and take his role as father, co-carer of the child. Others would take the chance to duck out and have the fun that is his "due right" since his "wife cannot provide". What's right and what's wrong?
Having a child is a life-changing event, not just for the mother, but for the father as well. However, it affects the mother a lot more, since she is the one bearing the pregnancy, labour and more often than not, the childcare.
Man by nature, male or female, is selfish. But women tend to be less selfish, especially with a baby to care for. Men tend to be more selfish, since he is giving up his sole claim on his woman, losing her partially to the child. Some men would step up and take his role as father, co-carer of the child. Others would take the chance to duck out and have the fun that is his "due right" since his "wife cannot provide". What's right and what's wrong?