Hi, i'm new here. It's a bit embarrasing for me to bring this out here but i don't really have anyone to discuss this with cos none of my friends are married so hoping can get gd advice from mummies here. My DH and i haven't had sex since delivery of baby. During pregnancy, we only did it once. Now baby is 15 mths old, which means i haven't had sex for over a year... My sex drive kinda high, so it drives me nuts tt my hub not like other men who pester their wives for it. My DH admits he has a problem... too tired or something. Our rnship is great, besides the usual bickering, but we seem to be lacking in physical intimacy, including kissing (only pecks). I'm not sure if i contributed to problem in any way. And cos we are co-sleeping with baby, and baby needs me at night so it's not like we can go for romantic trips, it's even harder to plan for sex. Any advice? Actually we are thinking of going for counselling for this and maybe other issues, but don't want to waste the money seeing someone who turns out to be unhelpful, so wondering if anybody can recommend a gd counsellor who specialises in this area of counselling.