hi mummies,
I wouldn't be overly concerned if bb at 10 month old is not keen on solids, as long as bb is contented and growing (slowly). I feel that under 12 months, milk can still provide sufficient nutrients. Although I know of many who disagree with this.
My 26 mth-old was not keen on solids until she turn 18 mths. Even then, she was just taking in small portions, and only selected foods. I was worried then, but my pd thinks there was no grounds for concern becos she was growing and developing well. It's only recently that she starts to expand her diet selection, but still small portions. She's small for her age, but healthy. Thank God.
On hindsight, I think her lack of interest for food could be due to several reasons:
1. she was on TBF until 12 months. I was not active in giving her solids other than cereal and pureed vege.
2. her teeth development was very, very slow. She didn't have any molars until she turned 2. Aiyo, like that how to chew? Try chewing food with just your front teeth, n u will know what I mean
. So she resort to swallowing, which limits the stuff we can give her, or she will gag. This is unnlike my #1 who has a nice, full set of teeth by 12mths, who enjoys whatever food we put into her mouth!
3. I refuse to give her "unhealthy" foods like lollies and cakes or biscuits to entice her. I believe those "empty foods" fills her up n will affect her regular meals. I believe she will eat if she is hungry, so I just stick to her normal meals (bf, lunch n dinner) and 3 x milk feed, plus some healthy snacks (cheese, fruits, boiled/steamed carrots, potato, pumpkin).
sostiram,
I don't know if what I do is right, but I don't let her meal go pass 45 min. With no other help at home, and having a older child to care for, I cannot afford to spend all my time feeding her. I feel that at this age, sleep is very important.Therefore sleep time should not be compromised, or she will be very cranky. There is no magic number/method. Go with your heart, and remember that every child is different. Just make sure that your child is happy and developing well. hehe, size doesn't matter here