Must have been painful for u when u were ostracizedI've had social problems since ....forever lol. Pri sch always parents kena call down for limteh sessions. Especially regarding my mutism. Surprised?so was my mom, she told the nun (convent girl here haha) she couldn't shut me up at home! Haha! It was selective.
I only started real social interaction in sec 3, after I figured out most of the unspoken rules. My mother bought Allan Pease's "Body Language" to help me express myself and interpret social cues. I was around pri 2 when I read it.
It's easier for me.to.interact online, even so I am often dubbed "the conversation killer". I've become a lot less bothered by that now that calluses have grown on my thick skin from countless faux pas.
And I seriously hope she doesn't have to go through the sort of alienation I felt growing up. Good thing my family insisted there was nothing wrong with me, as it had been suggested I be placed in a school for special needs kids. And that I have siblings and grew up close with my.cousins, who accepted my quirks and all.
As for homeschooling, I guess it might have to be an option if she were finding.difficulty with the mainstream schooling system, as I did. It's just not suited for everyone, and I had a really rough time in pri and sec school.
glad u adjusted eventually. Wouldn't hv guessed it at all.
Hehe is ok, I was oblivious to it couldn't figure out why I didn't have friends but I was more absorbed into books to really notice until sec sch. Pri sch was hell cos teachers picked on me, sec sch same story, but by then I had built up some confidence to talk so made a few friends...Must have been painful for u when u were ostracized
Mine still t-rex, dun wan hold things!!
Hehe so.nice, I tried to keep daytime activities not too quiet + around here always got noisy cars, karang guni, renovation noises etc...just that day time she super sensitive and night time she can sleep like a log. Except for plastic bag haha
See. Here's the thing. She super beaty from early age, bat at the mobile, bat at my boob, at almost everything around her. And lately, grabby at my glasses, her collar, my clothes. Give her anything to hold, first thing is go straight to her mouth. But she just won't hold it to observe or shake or hold in place for longer than a few seconds. Even her cloth book, she will hold, chuk the corner a bit, then hand will fling it to the side and release. Almost like flinging all her toys out of the way. And she likes to grab and play tug o' war with towel and blanket also. She just seems to be doing it out of reflex rather than interest
Vacumn, drilling, thunder, door bell all ok, but sneezing nose sound from my hub, my kneel cap joint sound and also looking at him from far while he nap, all these will make him wake up, he will self soothe and sleep back if I'm lucky la.. Sometimes he try self soothe but still cannot satisfy then will cry out loud haha.
原来daddies' ability to sleep through EVERYTHING starts from young!
Lolol. Ya lor ya lor mystery solved.
Usually only the stray then use pigeon nose suction
I also wondering about this, but she is not flipping yet... I think the safest thing is to.ensure no extra things in the cot....no pillow, bolster, blanket, toy, ...ensure bedsheet is taut, mattress is firm. I keep wondering if I should push her onto her back but I scared she wake up ley....
Hope she gets well soonest! Maybe just got irritated by dust or due to cold weather shift ba!
156 for girl height is not short la and your hub so tall, no worry la both of you so tall, your boy will be tall too haha.. Base on the formula my boy about 173cm, I hope he can reach at least 175cm@emk i read about this height formula before. I'm actually a shortie, 156 (though I always say it's a perfect height) and my hub is tall, 180. Was hoping that my boy can be like his dad, but if based on this formula, he will be shorter, but still keeping fingers crossed.
