angel, very much upset to hear about your lost and rejoice with you on your adopted child.
maybe there is something which you might want to know its that, the moderators will not drop you a mail and tell you that you have violated the rules and request you to pay a listing fee. its not their practice. Its our job as the organiser to get this mail to them and requesting for starting of the BP thread.
like i say in the post above, many of us "FREE People" does not goes into specific threads that is of no relation to us. This thread that is being highlighted should be someone who has been with the thread for long and reading all posts or he/she is a hidden biz owner.
Frankly, booking of slots is totally ok with no PRICE TAGs attached, which price tag sent via email. and this Annoymous person wont have a chance to jump upon the thread and make you more upset. I dont see any problem if friends gather together to have photos being shoot by a family friend, but of cos... when the price tags come into the picture and with your posb acct being reflected, not even Annoymous person will jump, but biz owner who paid SGD 25/7 days will want to have your thread being removed or even your acct being suspended.
I m not sure if you know what i am trying to explain to you.
The problem is not about Good price deal, but a violation of rules and conflict of interest with the biz operators here.
Moderators are not people who are blind, they will just likely to delete the affect posts and and case close. dont get too affected by this annoymous person. I am sure he/she doesnt mean to upset you at all.