hi christy,
the band looks useful, will definitely check it out tks!
Jan-ice,
i used to work in shanghai for 2 yrs n i know what u mean, the food is too oily n salty, transportation is crazy n the hygiene is of cos nothing compared as ours. when i fell sick, i refused to go to the doc too. however, one of my expat frens delivered in one of the private hospitals n she said it was good experience for her, but of cos it came with a huge price tag for non locals.
anyway, i met my dh there bt unfortunately my job ended n hv to come back to sin. we were separated for more than 3 yrs. it was v tough doing the long distance relationship... so many times we wanted to juz gave up, bt we always tell each other lets try another 6mths then another 6mths... he finally came to sin n got a job here in july, n 3mths later i was pregnant [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
so juz hang in there n stay positive. most impt dun hu si luan xiang... you'll see light at the other end of the tunnel, juz b patient n understanding.