Sally,
I dunno whether I can tahun the pain leh. That time my contractions came super fast because my gynae burst my waterbag to induce me. I heard that once waterbag burst, contractions tend to be fast and intense, dunno how true. I have been thinking if this time the contractions are well-paced and gradually increase in intensity, maybe I can take it. Then my friend said that even if I survive the contractions, at the point of pushing, the splitting pain would kill me. Besides, I may not have energy to push after fighting the contractions for a long time.
After you telling me you actually tahun 27hrs, I can't help but feel very very amazed. Your threshold of pain is very high leh. My gynae is very encouraging towards epi so this time, I think very likely I will take again. Maybe he is scared of patient screaming and cursing and make him stressed up during delivery.
Talking about foodcourt.... there was once cay refused to eat her noodles in foodcourt. She grabbed the bowl and flung it. Luckily the bowl din hit anyone but the noodles spattered all over the table and floor. I was speechless man. I ignored her and continued eating my noodles. cay prob realised her mistake and she just sat there and dazed. She cannot stand mess and soon she started to clear the noodles on the table but the cleaning auntie came to clean shortly.
In my mind, I really dunno how to react leh. Should I scold/beat/shout? People were staring but what should I do? Clean the floor? Sigh. Luckily the cleaning auntie was fast, or else if someone slipped because of the noodles, I will be even more embarrassed.
It's also hard to keep cay in the high chair. Yesterday she stood up when she refused to eat. My hb tried to stop her but she clung onto him to get down from the chair. I was so mad that I grabbed her from my hb and forced her into the chair again, not forgetting to give her a fiery stare when she screamed and yell. She stunned and guai guai sit down. Very sian to do this in public but what can I do right?