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this is exactly how i'm feeling these days! feel useless, feel like a jiak liao bee, feel completely different from how i was before preg. even colleagues commented that i seem a bit out of sorts these days. but what to do, everyone just tells me to take it easy and concentrate on my pregnancy...

if you can no longer trust him, then no point. even if you continue with the marriage, you will not be happy. you may want to consider divorcing him. it may seem like a huge step to take, but in time to come your life may be better as you won't have to worry about your husb cheating on you or...

you are brave already for making the decision to move on with life without that awful husb of yours. life will only get better from now on :) just place all focus on your kids and i'm sure things will work themselves out eventually. jiayou!

sorry to hear abt what you had to go through. that must've been painful and frankly speaking, i would not be able to accept it too. the worst feeling in the world is to feel like you've been used by your husb, esp for sex. you are so brave for being able to get through this and i can only wish...

i'm pretty much in the same situation as you, come to work do nothing much and i honestly have no idea what's happening in my dept anymore. my colleagues no longer keep me in the loop as well. i'm also feeling useless these days, esp when i used to be praised for being hardworking and everyone...

not deskbound previously, but job scope became deskbound after i got pregnant. :( when i walk/stand for long i feel so tired, but when i sit for long my back/butt hurts as well. really a bit sian of this.. can't wait to pop. me too, bloated whether or not i eat. heartburn/acid reflux whether...

yes, that's why i refrain from getting involved in anything and just report to work daily, do what i need to do, and knock off on the dot. there are a few who have been trying to stir some trouble but i just ignore as much as i can and stay out of their way. i have to admit i am contributing a...

can, but still feel bloated leh. basically anything that goes down my throat doesnt seem to go down completely.. more or less will have bloatedness, acid reflux or heartburn. i think mine is exceptionally bad bcos i feel it all throughout the day - even when i'm hungry and i haven't had anything...

i have to agree that it's hard taking in enough water during pregnancy. last time before i got pregnant, i could drink at least 1.5L of water per day. now, sometimes i even have difficulty drinking 800ml (my water bottle when it's full) of plain water. oftentimes have to take juice, soft drinks...

thanks @be-brave and @tinkyberz. my colleagues appear supportive but i know they are lamenting abt my pregnancy and upcoming ML which has caused quite a lot of operational issues and led to a major manpower reshufflement. as such, the workplace has become pretty chaotic with colleagues staging...

that's my mindset right now as well. 2.5 mths more for me to go before EDD. trying very hard to hang in there. hugs to OP, hope you manage to get through this...

best for you to seek legal help bah. may be hard for you to seek advice here as i'm sure many would agree with me that the both of you should have proceeded for divorce first before all these came abt. esp since you claim that the both of you have been tgt for quite some time already. i've...

sad to say, some companies are just smelly like that. i am fortunate to have found a job in an organization which is pretty much pro-family life, but even so i also face some discrimination from colleagues cos inevitably, my workload has to decrease (my job previously needed me to run ard quite...

ultimately, this is a motherhood forum. if you want to share abt your "different" kind of lifestyle, it may be more suitable in other sex-oriented forums instead. there are quite a number of mummies here who don't really agree with your mentality and lifestyle so it's inevitable that you'd...

imo since the both of you are TTC at the moment, why not just avoid tcm and anything which you should avoid when pregnant for the time being? with my current pregnancy, i wasnt sure if i was pregnant 2 weeks after ovulation but i avoided dang gui anyway. just had a hunch i could be expecting...

yes! my sentiments exactly. a lot of perverts lurking here.

Could just be normal menses..

Am wondering whether OP started this thread with the intent to bait like minded people, seeing as how there are quite a few topics on intimacy problems etc here.

I too feel that such acts are really sick and I will never be able to accept any similar idea. I have met open minded people but not to this extent.

hugs to you. can't imagine how tough it must be for you. getting married and having to live apart from my parents (at my in-laws') was also terrible for me. got even worse when i became pregnant, but thankfully my husb is quite understanding so we only return to my in-laws' on weekends and stay...