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What do u mean by evaluation of marriage in short & long term?

*my hubby agrees w mil perspective *doesn't incur damage if loan *hv the spare cash

Nope, she always have double standards for herself. My fil treats her like god, shares all his business things w her, and her sons will taught to treat her well. She herself, however, has an extremely bad r/s w her own mil, which is my hubby's grandmother.

By the way, my mil ask all her sons to treat their wives as outsiders, meaning like not to be part of family in terms of business, money etc..

Yes indeed, well said. But to some, money stays above all.

Totally can understand how u feeling...

From my point of view, i feel very hurt as i told him I'm taking a personal loan from him, and I'll also be returning him myself, with a stated term. I feel there shouldn't be untrust between the two of us.

It's to help my own family in their property debt. It's quite personal hence i don't wish to quote.

I also hv same sentiments that i don't know how to live w such calculative person for rest of my life. Like borrow 3 months also can't, if got other problems in future, really don't know how.

Yup, will find my own ways to solve the problem

He wants to get the 3% interest per month from me

Actually frankly speaking there is someone willing to lend me w/o charging interest. But i thought it's inconvenient, thought nothing wld be better than to seek help from ur love ones. Since the loan is gonna be for only 3 months. I did mentioned to my hubby there is someone willing to loan...

Hi it's solely for me and i told him i would return in 3 months.

Hi his reason for charging me interest he has expressed alot of times it's due to because i cause him to lose his interest. Not bcos of the course.

I will be finding my own ways to solve the issue. It's neither credit card overspent nor gambling. I know that there's a lot of angles that we can look at in this situation. But i can't help feeling disappointed someone close to me is charging me interest.

I think women must protect ourselves by hving enuff money for ourselves. To plan for ourselves as well. Money is really a very sensitive issue, be it within family, relatives, friends. Now i really can feel the power of this statement, "Money can make or break relationships".

Yes. Think we women must really be independent these days.

Yup thanks for sharing. I'm able to see the situation in another light w what u hv said.

Last time before marriage not like this. But after marriage became super calculative. Asked him the reason for charging me interest. But he said cos if he loan me the money he's doing me a favour and he shouldn't be losing his interest for the money loan hence he wants me to pay him interest.

Hi john The disappointing fact is that my own hubby wants to charge me interest for giving me a loan. I feel that this is super calculative. And it really hurts me.