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He would like to sell me the house. I need to purchase His shares based on the flat valuation. His current contribution is about 60 percent. We have also compromised on a 50-50 spilt. Does it meant that it is to my disadvantage?

Can u guys advise me on this. I will be buying over the matrimonial flat from my spouse. If this is a 50-50 spilt. Do I have to pay him 50% of the current selling price of this house or will it be based on 50 percent of the purchase price of the flat? Also, for example if he had contributed 65...

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Thank you. Thank God that I am working and I have a main focus: that is to bring good up my son. My family is supportive, they see me gong through this painful process. They are supportive of me leaving G this marriage instead of hanging on there miserably waiting and waiting yet being taken...

Hi rostrun1 YES!! It's the same feeling. Especially when u see him around the house with the phone stick with him 24X7. Always texting, especially in the bathroom. It just irritates me and causes the anger in me. I have a stressful job too, I do hope that I will not breakdown due to such...

Thanks. Yup. Perhaps we married too young He was only 26 back then. However, I m just disappointed that after a good 15 years of our marriage, a person can just changed drastically to become so heartless and cruel. Despite me giving him tons of chances to repent in his behavior. End of the...

Thank you. Not sure how long more but ... Yes...it does feel terrible..especially as a victim and having a spouse who does not even feel remorseful and at fault. And continue with his activities and at the same time still staying in the house. You are right. I have to live well. Takes time for...

Hi friend, He had finally agreeded to go down to the lawyer to negotiate on the terms. I am sure he will ask for a much lower child maintenance fee and a half half spilt of the flat. Guess still a long process from here.

Hi Thank you very much for asking. Things did not turn out better. He did not reply to my lawyer at all. I was too pissed, I texted him and ask what's now He got the cheek to ask him if I m still giving him time. I knew in my heart this is crap, I asked him purposly, what kind of time are you...

Hi Thanks for asking. The lawyer had drafted out a copy of the divorce document for my review. I am filing for a direct divorce instead of separation. Hence, all the unreasonable behaviours of his had been clearly stated in the doc. Now my challenge is getting him to sign on it because it is...

Thanks. Yes, guess time with heal and help.. Just have to be brave..move on and forget about him. Wish the both of them *best of luck*

:) I guess whatever they are in future has nothing to do with me. Best not to know or find our anything about him and her if I have decided to move on.

Hi Spilt Thanks for sharing. Good to know that you are coping and doing well now. I hope that i can be strong as well. I know that it is going to be tough to educate my son and bring him up in this journey. However, I had tried everything and end of the day when a person is not remorseful at all...

Yes..thank you. My son is my top priority now. I will not give him.the care and control. My son is aware of his relationship. But I did told my son before, no matter what..he is still your father and he sure loves you. Just that we need to be separated now but I will love u and care for u. My...

Most importantly, I must accept the fact that once a person heart goes to someone else. There is no point to keep the person with you and suffer in silence. I had been very emotional and stressed mentally for a year. This thing had really drained me out totally. Finally, I decided to spilt it...

Sonetimes it's good to really hear from other people to know that what u decide is rite and you should move on. At times, I m so unsure if I should still wait endlessly for miracle and endure or should I just let go. Hearing from others really helps me to be more firm that what I thought is...

Hi Kopi Lim Really good to hear from you this. Yes, the gal is absolutely wrong to accept all these fantasy gifts and attention from him. He, as a married man with kid and a boss is even more wrong to shower her with all there attention and privileges. All these are just wrong. I had tons of...

Thanks. What u said really make sense. Not sure ...but like u said, hopefully I can just sit and see their consequences. The gal is a singaporean not even a foreigner. A local graduate somemore. I really dun understand.

Hi Approaching the women does not work at all. I had texted her once and told her nicely that all these behavioursecretive are wrong. She went to him and end up i had a big fight with the spouse due to this.

Yes. I did went to the lawyer to consult and asked get the lawyer to draft the papers under unreasonable behaviour. Because he had been close to the gal and fetching her to and fro to work every day and even buy her gifts etc. He had also texted vulgarity languages to me when I questioned him. I...