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Hi Pris, I know exactly the pain you are going through, I had been there before when boy went through an open heart surgery, he is as tiny as your boy. Be strong and pray for strength, will keep little jadon in prayers! If there is anything you need, you know how to get me.... hugs....

Etelle, I had delivered 4 babies by 3 different doctors, none of them ever requested me to shave, but you may be asked to do so if you need to undergo c-section, there the nurse will shave it for you.

devastedmum, I am lost for words too, but do assure that we understand how you feel and will always be here for you if you need to talk. When i lost my 2nd boy, it was like the whole world was crumbling down, I want to go with him but for my elder boy, I know I have to be strong and move...

Susan, my baby had bf jaundice and so was told to keep ginger intake to the minimal. so I dun take ginger but merely use a couple of slices while cooking fish to reduce the fishy smell, DOM is ok as long as you cooked it, the alcohol content will be evaporated once you cook it, thus fairly...

mmmm.... how come mine need...sign.... very troublesome....

coral, you will be blessed too! take care... hugs....

K&K, i did the massage 3 days after i delivered, apparantly it helps in my incontinency. i didn't take care of myself when my second son was around cos was running around Singapore, seeing different doctors and surgeons, checkup, scans..... I was very weak then and the incontinency...

Hi weddingmoods, I am not sure of Medela pump but I have been using Ameda since 5 years ago, other than the valves, the other parts are all still well and intact. I had lent it to a few friends and SIL during the times when I was not using. It is around S$265, can be battery operated and...

PO, if i am not wrong, think they have to do one xray after one year, remember that I have to bring her for xray myself somewhere in the middle of the contract. and ya, agreed with you, maid and BB expenses will be around 1K but think can be slightly less if we TBF our babies. say maid...

Hi bluebell, you can extend the contract yourself personally, my hubby did once but complained very troublesome, quite a bit of running around, so later we decided to pay a minimal sum to the agent to do it. it will costs about $200 (insuarnce, renewal of work permit and a couple of other...

Hi hoho03, actually, it should be in the agreement when you first employ her, else, it is usually very difficult for us to convince them later on. if you have not done the above, then you need to know the character of the maid and handle them differently. For example, if you know that...

Hi hoho03, how old is your maid and from which country?

erkerk, have to be tactful between maid and MIL lor, not so easy one lei. you can train the maid to do what you want her to do but you can't do the same to MIL, at the end of the day, MIL will feel that they have more experience cos they have brought up you husband so dun need you to teach...

wow tamarind, you very generous lei, but are you afraid that you will spoil her? sometimes my husband wanted to do that but I stopped him, but i did told my maid that we will give her bonus at the end of her contract ranging between 1 to 3 months depending on her performance. during the two...

hi tamarind, I agree with you on that filipinos have no respect for the elders, that's why I also have list of rules and regulations, dos and dun on paper and get my agent to get her to sign on it before hiring her, my former agent refused initially but I told her that if she wanted me to...

Hi folic, Thanks, this happens about 5 years ago, but till today, still remember clearly what happen then, it always seems like yesterday. I am a Christian and I seek comfort from God, although still painful whenever I think of all those hospital scenes (he had an open heart surgery at that...

Hi erkerk, think may be able to share with you on the maids from different origin... let me recall, my first was sri lanka (dun know why I ever think of them), the second was indonesian and finally, all the others are Filipino. My sri lanka maid speaks very good english but maybe she too...

hi JeslynLuvRenee, When making appointment lor, the nurse told me that he will be away between that period so I "kan chiong" and seek his further advice. So your baby 8 months like mine liao right? is it baby Renee? when did you deliver? delivered by he himself???

dear coral, I did not suffer a miscarriage or stillbirth like anyone of you here but I have gone through the pain of losing my 31/2 months old son in my arms.... I understand the pain you are having now, what my advise to you here is to grief and cry all with your heart out, take your time to...

Hi everyone, sorry to interrupt, but I personally feel that since both of them have sold their item, regardless of who is right or wrong, let's close the chapter and move on. no hard feelings please.