@Wanbaby I totally can understand the food part. So hard to resist good food.
I guess as long as you eat moderately and take note of the calories & cholesterol in take, you still can enjoy the food you like. Maybe you can try doing some light excecise? Or taking a stroll with hubby after food.
For the BD part, to be honest, it's not as enjoyable as it used to be. Slowly it becomes a mission rather than passion. Quite stressful as need to keep track of basal temperature, ovulation, or our timing just don't meet.
My hub job requires him to travel a lot, like for weeks or months & worst majority of my ovulation period he is on biz trip. By the time he's back, my menses starting soon. If not, when he don't need to fly, I will be doing ot when there is a deadline to rush.
In fact, we find ivf is less stressful than trying naturally, except for the financial & emotion part. Physically I'm not afraid of needles & my hub is a medic when he's serving his army, so the injections part is such a breeze for us.
Since we had used up our 3 fresh quota already, I doubt we have financial ability to go for another fresh. Next will be going for FET for our 1 & only slow & not so healthy embie. Pray hard it will survive the thaw & sticks miraclely.
If not, guess that will be end of our ivf journey.