I really need help to understand my situation. Please read my story and advice me :-C
Until my mom and sis visited me and saw what was actually happening to me in this relationship I had no idea about this whole situation. I have seriously lost faith in LOVE. Life seems very practical.
I was this very naive girl who loved her husband and would take all the hard work for him and never complain about anything. But people take advantage about this. I have ended up doing all the hard work and he locks himself up in his room with his computer.
There was one time when I forgot to get bread, he sent me to the supermarket to get it at 12pm in the night.
It is during my pregnancy I realized this bitter truth about my relationship. He is very concerned about money matters. He did not allow me to take taxi in my 9th month pregnancy also. And questions about how can I spend $50 for my sis and mom on my treat to them at a restaurant. This is when I work full time. I cant imagine my situation if I stop earning.
There was one time I had ear infection and nobody took me to the clinic, I had to go to the doctor myself after suffering whole night. Next day after taking tablets I was vigorously vomiting because I could not take antibiotics, my husband comes home , sees me vomiting, asking for his lunch and did not even offer me water . All he was concerned was his work for that day.
And after delivering the baby, he offered no help. I had to go out to buy daipers, chicken etc., whenever we wanted something during my first week after delivering baby.
All these have hurt me very deeply.
Until my mom and sis visited me and saw what was actually happening to me in this relationship I had no idea about this whole situation. I have seriously lost faith in LOVE. Life seems very practical.
I was this very naive girl who loved her husband and would take all the hard work for him and never complain about anything. But people take advantage about this. I have ended up doing all the hard work and he locks himself up in his room with his computer.
There was one time when I forgot to get bread, he sent me to the supermarket to get it at 12pm in the night.
It is during my pregnancy I realized this bitter truth about my relationship. He is very concerned about money matters. He did not allow me to take taxi in my 9th month pregnancy also. And questions about how can I spend $50 for my sis and mom on my treat to them at a restaurant. This is when I work full time. I cant imagine my situation if I stop earning.
There was one time I had ear infection and nobody took me to the clinic, I had to go to the doctor myself after suffering whole night. Next day after taking tablets I was vigorously vomiting because I could not take antibiotics, my husband comes home , sees me vomiting, asking for his lunch and did not even offer me water . All he was concerned was his work for that day.
And after delivering the baby, he offered no help. I had to go out to buy daipers, chicken etc., whenever we wanted something during my first week after delivering baby.
All these have hurt me very deeply.