hello! i'm currently staying with my husband's family, while waiting for our BTO (estimated may 2017). everything has been going ok so far, which i am very thankful for.
the thing is i recently found out that i'm pregnant & due to space constraints (we live in a 4-rm flat, with PIL and BIL) i am considering to move back to my parents house (only my parents are staying in the 4-rm flat now, so there are 2 empty rooms). i think that my MIL will probably be quite upset if we don't continue to stay together & she doesn't get to take care of her grandchild. also, she is a bit traditional & i don't know if she will accept that her son will be staying at my parent's house. however, the space is really limited in our room now, & i really don't know how we are going to squeeze all the baby things in & still have space to walk ard.
i don't want to affect our relationship with PIL, but i really feel that with a baby joining us, moving to my parent's place will give us much needed space.
any ladies here faced similar problems before?
the thing is i recently found out that i'm pregnant & due to space constraints (we live in a 4-rm flat, with PIL and BIL) i am considering to move back to my parents house (only my parents are staying in the 4-rm flat now, so there are 2 empty rooms). i think that my MIL will probably be quite upset if we don't continue to stay together & she doesn't get to take care of her grandchild. also, she is a bit traditional & i don't know if she will accept that her son will be staying at my parent's house. however, the space is really limited in our room now, & i really don't know how we are going to squeeze all the baby things in & still have space to walk ard.
i don't want to affect our relationship with PIL, but i really feel that with a baby joining us, moving to my parent's place will give us much needed space.
any ladies here faced similar problems before?