Monkeychic, I am also 35, some docs would say why don't u try earlier etc bla bla bla.. and very discouraging. But in NUH if u tell them 35, they are still positive about it.
Talking about work, in 2011 I had problem coming for morning scan and usually have to play around hide and seek and i rem one colleague still ask the secretary to check on one mc in nuh, end up I took half day morning, but of cos lots of unhappy colleague. It was not easy. In 2015 I quit cos firstly I am not allow to be late a min for work and second they don't welcome pregnant lady not to say getting time off for ART. With my age approaching 35 i am a bit panicked and went my 1st iui, puregon shots goes up to 28/29 days. I give up working. Hence, for ladies working I can understand all the pain. Taking leave, finding cover , asking for time off. All these years I have seen the ugly side of the large corporates world. How they penalize mothers either via interview or being wary of married women yet to have kids. But if you allowed, do hold on, cos you may NV know when the battle will ends, unless u really are confident financially.