Hey ladies. Do u have this problem ? I have so far changed 4 maids since my original one left last year.
Every single maid my mum has complaint that they are not following her instructions and undermining her. And the maids will always roti -prata. (Ie. Telling her something and then try to back track and change what she said when confronted by me)
Our current maid is not perfect but I think she is fine. My mum again has complaint about her not following instructions.
I am very tired of all this. Plus, I am expecting my 3rd child now. So, energy level has also went down significantly. So far I have manage to speak to my current maid and she is OK with my mum, though terrified but she knows that I understand the situation.
I think I am doing a good job so far, but I am really very very very tired. Emotionally and physically. Not sure how I am going to last. Especially now, when my mum thinks that I am siding with the maid. Adds to the burden.
What should I do?
Oh ya. My mum stays with me and hubby. She loves my kids and have been a great help. I love her a lot but I don't think I am.able to balance this maid vs ah mah equation much longer.
Every single maid my mum has complaint that they are not following her instructions and undermining her. And the maids will always roti -prata. (Ie. Telling her something and then try to back track and change what she said when confronted by me)
Our current maid is not perfect but I think she is fine. My mum again has complaint about her not following instructions.
I am very tired of all this. Plus, I am expecting my 3rd child now. So, energy level has also went down significantly. So far I have manage to speak to my current maid and she is OK with my mum, though terrified but she knows that I understand the situation.
I think I am doing a good job so far, but I am really very very very tired. Emotionally and physically. Not sure how I am going to last. Especially now, when my mum thinks that I am siding with the maid. Adds to the burden.
What should I do?
Oh ya. My mum stays with me and hubby. She loves my kids and have been a great help. I love her a lot but I don't think I am.able to balance this maid vs ah mah equation much longer.