I got one frozen embryo. Transferred that and it failed.
I just did third cycle. Got 4-5 embryos this round. Put in 2 but my full flow of mense came in 13dpt already so it failed. I think I shld have 2 frozen with another 1 under observation on ET day. Will only know on Monday when I go and get the report.
I felt sad that this round failed but I feel at least I have done my best and I won't have regrets. I do what I can and leave the rest to God.
Why don't you take a break first? Don't think about next IVF yet. I took a one year break between first and second cycle. I want to get my mind and heart ready first. That's why during my second cycle I was much more relaxed. I guess it helped. Diff pp take diff amt of time to be ready.
Some pp can be ready the following month but for me and my husband we took 6 months to decide and went back to doc for checks and set date for my second cycle. We had wanted to give up after first failed cos it was so devastating for us. Both of our reproduction condition dun seem to be good so we felt like it's hopeless one. But I decided that I dun want to regret it. I want to at least try all 3 fresh cycles and fully utilise co-govt grant. If at the end it's no, then so be it. So in a way, I thank God I tried. At least, I've got one child now. So you dunno until you have tried. At end, if it's still no child, at least you know you didn't do yourself any wrong and won't have regret.
Sorry. I very long-winded. Just want to share in the hope to encourage you. But at the end of the day, just follow your heart no matter what. It's your life. All the best!