Sex less marriage

I can follow your logic, Pixie.

Pink bra with black dress ok ba? Duh.... As long as not white or translucent, ok right? But once bra straps show, those bloody guys will look like there's no tomorrow..
 


personally i find if you are pretty, you wear what, i also ok.. :D
but if you have saggy boobs, please dun show me any part of it.. :p
coz i feel it quite creepy...
 
Really don't understand men they must feel proud that their wife is still attractive instead of remarking what we wear.
 
and one question, what gives man the authority/competency to comment, 'Hey pink bras with white blouse not professional'... What? They image consultants?
Should say something like, dun wear that combi, will attract wrong attention etc...
Cannot act clever and say not professional what... so if i wear dull pink, instead of bright pink, can?

not as if we go question their choice of briefs or underwears, right?
 
like i said earlier is not about giving the man authority or competency to demand woman to do something...
is more about communication and accept each other needs & wants..

i'm not saying pink bra is not professional and will attract wrong attention..
i'm saying i can don't wear pink bra because it makes my partner uncomfortable... why would i want to wear a pink bra and makes my partner unhappy?

what i'm questioning and weighing is my action and my partner's happiness
 
wendysu said:
I just hope my husband desire for sex can disappear or less now.
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Have you tried to approach a counselor to see what can be done to help you and your hubby in your situation?

It will definitely help him to understand you and your needs better..

Don't just hope.. Work on it.. it should yield better results than just hope for the best..

加油！！
 
My dear wendysu... there are several options, other than penetrative sex... i know, explored them before...
mouth, in between the 'milk bottles'... even footjob... but no anal, please! its so disgusting....
 
shearer said:
My dear wendysu... there are several options, other than penetrative sex... i know, explored them before...
mouth, in between the 'milk bottles'... even footjob... but no anal, please! its so disgusting....
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Talk to him and explore.. and be open about it when he tells you..

If you shut out his ideas too quickly, he will unlikely want to contribute more ideas.. Wish you all the Best!!!
 
Dear sisters, I had all sexual involving in sex toy, lingeries and whatever vibrator you name them, but now i am completely not interested. Whenever he want to use them I will decline or just find excuse don't use them.

I am just praying for zero sexual activities, be husband and wife ok but no sex.

I am not involve in any affairs or other relationship now, just want to continue to be strong for my kids and carry on my life.

I do not think talk to husband will works as they will not understand, worse if they go out and find sex and bring back disease. I feel that sex should not be a important factor but he will not understand.

This is exactly how i feel
http://honestyconspiracy.blogspot.sg/2012/01/im-just-not-interested-in-sex-with-my.html
 
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Wendy my dear... thats our job and duty as wives.... cant escape... think of it objectively... tugging 50 times at the cock (handjob) cant really hurt.. or 4 seconds of licking the head, no matter how smelly it is.. cant hurt that much, does it? fine... no sex... cant we just push our boobs together and let our hubbies do the job (boob-job)?? have to be imaginative...
 
Sister shearer,

I know what you mean, we are left with no choice as woman, bo bian, just have to continue to pretend and give in. Waiting for the day to stop carrying this burden.
 
wendysu said:
Sister shearer,

I know what you mean, we are left with no choice as woman, bo bian, just have to continue to pretend and give in. Waiting for the day to stop carrying this burden.
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Just a query. How would you want and expect your husband to behave?
Are you expecting him to change?
And what is within your boundary of acceptable behavior from him?
 
waiting for the day when he will drop his sex desire and no longer asking for sex. Then only i can less a burden.
Can you believe, i ever thought of asking him to go outside and look for sex as i failed to satisfy him, unbelievable right! But of course i never bring up. I am thinking of visiting specialist or whoever can help me, but so costly to go for counselling or see specialist. Haiz...
 
wendysu said:
waiting for the day when he will drop his sex desire and no longer asking for sex. Then only i can less a burden.
Can you believe, i ever thought of asking him to go outside and look for sex as i failed to satisfy him, unbelievable right! But of course i never bring up. I am thinking of visiting specialist or whoever can help me, but so costly to go for counselling or see specialist. Haiz...
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If financial burden is already crazy looking sex outside will increase it even further. So doesn't seem to help. Approach FSC? Maybe they can help out and advise.
They help open up your options.
Be strong
 
Wendy, dun go to such extent... just talk it out between both of you... save the $$ for other meaningful purposes... like what I have proposed... just do any thing to get him to ejaculate... coz once he's spent, he wont bother you anymore for the night...
by mouth, by cleavage, by hand, by foot, anything, baby.. come on, surely you can spare 7 minutes of your time to get him off?

i share with you one suggestion.. not supposed to... but since....

everyday when both of you are home. straightaway take off your bra, cup your bra around his cock and jerk off, let him cum in your worn bra... squat down while doing this... your 2 nipples will be poking thro your shirt... he will hit 'O' in no time.. and wont bother you anymore... and guess what? get him to hand-wash your bra...
 
shearer said:
Wendy, dun go to such extent... just talk it out between both of you... save the $$ for other meaningful purposes... like what I have proposed... just do any thing to get him to ejaculate... coz once he's spent, he wont bother you anymore for the night...
by mouth, by cleavage, by hand, by foot, anything, baby.. come on, surely you can spare 7 minutes of your time to get him off?
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Yes sister, i will not say out because i also worry. Thanks
 
shearer said:
Wendy, dun go to such extent... just talk it out between both of you... save the $$ for other meaningful purposes... like what I have proposed... just do any thing to get him to ejaculate... coz once he's spent, he wont bother you anymore for the night...
by mouth, by cleavage, by hand, by foot, anything, baby.. come on, surely you can spare 7 minutes of your time to get him off?
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@shearer. I don't think it's the time. It's the feeling of doing it.
Agree with you about money better spent on elsewhere.
 
hell, if you dun feel like jerking him off, just throw him your worn bra, wrap around him nose/mouth and then ask him to DIY. At least stand there and watch him DIY, let him c our nipples poking thro our shirt/blouse...

once hes done. can walk off le
 
shearer said:
hell, if you dun feel like jerking him off, just throw him your worn bra, wrap around him nose/mouth and then ask him to DIY. At least stand there and watch him DIY, let him c our nipples poking thro our shirt/blouse...

once hes done. can walk off le
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Haha.
Wish that does help!!
No harm trying when all else fails.
 
so many ways/things to try... if you get my gist...
take off your panties and stuff in his mouth, shut him up, wrap your worn bra around his cock, guide both his hands to DIY...
stand there, look at him, push out ur chest... such a simple action, Wendy, dont tell me you dun have the feeling/time to do it?


or wear his underwear/boxer, walk around in the house... etc etc...

you want fun? fine. use ur worn bra to catch his cum from a distance. challenge him to shoot accurately...

always always remember at the end of everything... get him to bloody hand wash the soiled bra and panties!
 
shearer said:
so many ways/things to try... if you get my gist...
take off your panties and stuff in his mouth, shut him up, wrap your worn bra around his cock, guide both his hands to DIY...
stand there, look at him, push out ur chest... such a simple action, Wendy, dont tell me you dun have the feeling/time to do it?


or wear his underwear/boxer, walk around in the house... etc etc...

you want fun? fine. use ur worn bra to catch his cum from a distance. challenge him to shoot accurately...

always always remember at the end of everything... get him to bloody hand wash the soiled bra and panties!
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Good one. Get him to bloody hand wash the soiled bra and panties.
 
shearer said:
so many ways/things to try... if you get my gist...
take off your panties and stuff in his mouth, shut him up, wrap your worn bra around his cock, guide both his hands to DIY...
stand there, look at him, push out ur chest... such a simple action, Wendy, dont tell me you dun have the feeling/time to do it?


or wear his underwear/boxer, walk around in the house... etc etc...

you want fun? fine. use ur worn bra to catch his cum from a distance. challenge him to shoot accurately...

always always remember at the end of everything... get him to bloody hand wash the soiled bra and panties!
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Haha dear, you are expert in this?
I hope i have the mood to do all these, let's try it out and update you.

It is actually not the time or feeling, it is just the body does not simulate or trigger or react to sexual not even thinking about it. Previously watch pornography works perfectly, now i don't even feel anything. Now the moment in bed he want to touch, i will immediately have the thought by itself," Oh no, please don't." I will try to avoid, very scare when his hand come nearer to me at night time in bed, i knew what is going to happen and i really don't like it.

Now every night though i can't sleep peacefully with kids around, but i rather lack of sleep then have sex. I always hope my kids will come into the room, kinda of rescue me.

But at time he will text me to ask whether can we have sex, i will feel the misery inside me, how many times can we reject right. Menses come is also my saviour.
 
Wendy, as a matter of fact, we all need to take out our worn and sweaty bras, once we in the comfort of our homes.. so? whats so difficult about taking it off, throwing it to him, and say "I wanna watch you cum. Cum for me. Cum in my bra, honey... "
 
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