Dear All,
Wondering anyone has the similar problem I'm facing, hope you all can share with me.
I failed my 1st marriage due to the presence of my current husband.
Divorce and custody with my 10 years old prince.
Happily married with a caring husband, 7year old princess & 6 years old Prince & wonderful sex life.
Why he is a caring husband, he will prepares my nasi lemak by taking out the chicken wings bone & cut the meat in small pcs even @ changivillage. Will not get this type of treatment from my lover & ex husband. In fact I need to queue & buy for them, while they sitting waiting like a king.
Problem started to occur only after giving birth to my 3rd prince, i suffered low sex drive and don't have any desire for my husband. I'm totally losing interest in sex, i felt very stressful whenever we are on bed worrying that he will initiate again. When he requested for sex, my nightmares begin, i will find any possible ways to escape. I know this is very unfair to my husband, I had tried all sort of pill to enhance our sex life but seem like it doesn't help much.
I had also brought up my concern to my mum, she told me he's still a normal man and will have his urge and desire. It's very unfair to him as he does not do anything wrong to you and it's a wife's duty to give in at least once or twice a week.
Once a while to fulfill my duty as a wife, when he initiate sex. I will request him to go clubbing or buy beer home making up stories that its helps to build up the atmosphere. Reality I'm trying to get myself tipsy so as to trick my brains to picture him as my lover while making out. Occasionally when I'm not tipsy enough to trick my brains, i will encounter dryness and painful sex, left choicless but to carry on acting like a pornstar. Hoped and praying hard for his harassment act to end faster. After the harassment deeds will continue to be a actress like asking him did you enjoy?why you ejected so fast? How's my performance any rooms for improvement? just to please him.
Which I find myself very fake.
My lover came to the picture is because I was so vex over this issue. During 2014 after our company D&D, I was already quite tipsy one my colleague invited me to party. Since my husband on night shift & kids in mil place why not relax myself. So we went on partying & drinking till we pour out our sorrow, we console each other and found out that we are on the same boat. he was having a sexless marriage for a couples of years. We was so lost till we ended in my room and found that my sex drive & desire had changed completely. We wouldn't miss a chance to make out even it's office hours if times allows.
Can any one help me to overcome this my sex drive change completely once i'm out of home.. I just hope that this can come to an end and can maintain the marriage happily without sex with my husband,
Wondering anyone has the similar problem I'm facing, hope you all can share with me.
I failed my 1st marriage due to the presence of my current husband.
Divorce and custody with my 10 years old prince.
Happily married with a caring husband, 7year old princess & 6 years old Prince & wonderful sex life.
Why he is a caring husband, he will prepares my nasi lemak by taking out the chicken wings bone & cut the meat in small pcs even @ changivillage. Will not get this type of treatment from my lover & ex husband. In fact I need to queue & buy for them, while they sitting waiting like a king.
Problem started to occur only after giving birth to my 3rd prince, i suffered low sex drive and don't have any desire for my husband. I'm totally losing interest in sex, i felt very stressful whenever we are on bed worrying that he will initiate again. When he requested for sex, my nightmares begin, i will find any possible ways to escape. I know this is very unfair to my husband, I had tried all sort of pill to enhance our sex life but seem like it doesn't help much.
I had also brought up my concern to my mum, she told me he's still a normal man and will have his urge and desire. It's very unfair to him as he does not do anything wrong to you and it's a wife's duty to give in at least once or twice a week.
Once a while to fulfill my duty as a wife, when he initiate sex. I will request him to go clubbing or buy beer home making up stories that its helps to build up the atmosphere. Reality I'm trying to get myself tipsy so as to trick my brains to picture him as my lover while making out. Occasionally when I'm not tipsy enough to trick my brains, i will encounter dryness and painful sex, left choicless but to carry on acting like a pornstar. Hoped and praying hard for his harassment act to end faster. After the harassment deeds will continue to be a actress like asking him did you enjoy?why you ejected so fast? How's my performance any rooms for improvement? just to please him.
Which I find myself very fake.
My lover came to the picture is because I was so vex over this issue. During 2014 after our company D&D, I was already quite tipsy one my colleague invited me to party. Since my husband on night shift & kids in mil place why not relax myself. So we went on partying & drinking till we pour out our sorrow, we console each other and found out that we are on the same boat. he was having a sexless marriage for a couples of years. We was so lost till we ended in my room and found that my sex drive & desire had changed completely. We wouldn't miss a chance to make out even it's office hours if times allows.
Can any one help me to overcome this my sex drive change completely once i'm out of home.. I just hope that this can come to an end and can maintain the marriage happily without sex with my husband,