Seeking opinions.
My girlfriend got involved with a married man sometime in May last year after the guy kissed her in the lift while sending her home. She kept rejecting him as she did not want to be a third party but the guy kept assuring her that he no longer loves the wife and is still in the marriage because of the 3 year old child. He said all he needed was time to sort out matters before he leaves the wife.
The affair continued with my friend constantly reminding him she does not want to be involved and asking to break-up but end up getting coaxed and convinced into continuing.
My girlfriend eventually got pregnant in Feb because they have discussed and both wanted a baby (though the pregnancy was unplanned) and she took an overdose to try to end pregnancy which didn't work. When both discussed, they decided not to keep the baby as timing was not right. My girlfriend then tried to end the pregnancy by taking "Cooling" stuff and suffered spotting and tummy aches but was still pregnant. One day, the pain in the tummy was so intense she went to the gynae and a check showed the baby had no heartbeat and thus, the pregnancy was terminated. My girlfriend was so affected by the loss of the baby and as the guy started to slip away from my friend's life thereafter, she though of committing suicide.
I found out about all these and am very angry cos all along, my girlfriend did not dare tell me. I feel so indignant and want to get back at the guy. I now have the wife's telephone number and has threatened to expose him. He is now very panicky but I am not sure if exposing him is the way to go.
I believe there are two scenarios:-
1 - Wife goes bersek and marriage ends in divorce
2 - Wife really upset but guy manages to coax and convince through begging that he won't repeat mistake, marriage becomes stronger
Anyone been through similar situations or heard of similar situations can share your thoughts on whether to expose or not to? What happened in the end?
Thanks!
My girlfriend got involved with a married man sometime in May last year after the guy kissed her in the lift while sending her home. She kept rejecting him as she did not want to be a third party but the guy kept assuring her that he no longer loves the wife and is still in the marriage because of the 3 year old child. He said all he needed was time to sort out matters before he leaves the wife.
The affair continued with my friend constantly reminding him she does not want to be involved and asking to break-up but end up getting coaxed and convinced into continuing.
My girlfriend eventually got pregnant in Feb because they have discussed and both wanted a baby (though the pregnancy was unplanned) and she took an overdose to try to end pregnancy which didn't work. When both discussed, they decided not to keep the baby as timing was not right. My girlfriend then tried to end the pregnancy by taking "Cooling" stuff and suffered spotting and tummy aches but was still pregnant. One day, the pain in the tummy was so intense she went to the gynae and a check showed the baby had no heartbeat and thus, the pregnancy was terminated. My girlfriend was so affected by the loss of the baby and as the guy started to slip away from my friend's life thereafter, she though of committing suicide.
I found out about all these and am very angry cos all along, my girlfriend did not dare tell me. I feel so indignant and want to get back at the guy. I now have the wife's telephone number and has threatened to expose him. He is now very panicky but I am not sure if exposing him is the way to go.
I believe there are two scenarios:-
1 - Wife goes bersek and marriage ends in divorce
2 - Wife really upset but guy manages to coax and convince through begging that he won't repeat mistake, marriage becomes stronger
Anyone been through similar situations or heard of similar situations can share your thoughts on whether to expose or not to? What happened in the end?
Thanks!