bbfelice
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No matter which era or generations we are in, there still some people who have this thinking. It might due be the family upbringing or personal's belief. There is nothing wrong if a person believe that a child should born within the marriage cause everybody has their own belief. Just like some still think that son is more important than daughter.
mannouhana's comment might be insensitive in this thread but there may be some truth in it cause I have seen in other forum that a young unwed mom commented that her parent told neighbours initially that her child is from other relative because they felt embarrassed. Fortunately, they came to love the child eventually and proud to have the child.
I can see some of the comments are quite harsh to mannouhana but I don't think she has any ill-intention. Her comment is based on a strict family where she was brought up. But that doesn't mean she will murder her daughter if born out of wedlock
I am not siding her but in reality, there are people with more cruel words and actions towards unwed/single mom. Perhaps it is good thing to learn from this incident so that when really come across with such cruel people, you can get yourself mentally prepare and learn how to deal with such people so as not to get yourself affected emotionally.
mannouhana's comment might be insensitive in this thread but there may be some truth in it cause I have seen in other forum that a young unwed mom commented that her parent told neighbours initially that her child is from other relative because they felt embarrassed. Fortunately, they came to love the child eventually and proud to have the child.
I can see some of the comments are quite harsh to mannouhana but I don't think she has any ill-intention. Her comment is based on a strict family where she was brought up. But that doesn't mean she will murder her daughter if born out of wedlock
I am not siding her but in reality, there are people with more cruel words and actions towards unwed/single mom. Perhaps it is good thing to learn from this incident so that when really come across with such cruel people, you can get yourself mentally prepare and learn how to deal with such people so as not to get yourself affected emotionally.
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