sex education?

oktochannel

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hi everyone,

would like to ask how you educate your young ones on this subject?

Kids nowadays are so IT savvy that they can use ipad/smart devices so well even before they know how to hold a pencil. And those explicit/violence contents are so easily available.

I tried looking for prevention solutions like turning on safety modes etc but later realized that once kids enter primary school, most of the time they are out of sight. A lot of young kids now have smart phones, even if I block all the bad contents from our home equipment, there is still possibility that they can see/view/share from their friends who manage to get access to such images/videos/sites/etc.

Hence i would like to ask experienced parents here how to teach the young ones on this, at what age is best?

Thanks
 


My gal read a story book from the pre - school section when she's around 6yo.
Title is 'Mom's having a baby'

My gal is now 11yo. I can recall so well becos she borrowed this book several times.

She understand that baby came from a man and a women or rather Mommy and Daddy which was well drawn and described in the book.
I also shown her videos from http://www.babycentre.co.uk/v1049102/inside-pregnancy-fertilisation when she's about 9yo as I'm preg with #2
It shows sperm enter the fallopian tubes and how life started and how she started as a tiny beanie.

Now I'm preg with #3, she'll occasionally asked to see these videos again.

So during the videos, I'll educate her that getting preg is this 'simple' so do not try till you r matured and responsible enough as an adult. Sometimes will also educate her while watching drama and even from newspaper news.

As for what age is best?! I'm not too sure. But I realised my gal is curious at the age of 6-7yo already. Now at age of 11, she's even more curious as she just started puberty. I find this depend on your child's maturity and surrounding.

Oh and I caught her once serving porn at the age of 10. Her friend 'intro' her to watch. Got scolding from me and I spent some time in a few episode to explain and lecture her that this is so unhealthy.

Hope my experience helps ;)
 
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Nowadays children are way more matured than us. They are even more intelligent than what we used to be when we were little children. They tend to see and explore things themselves.
I am glad that you take this opportunity to share with your daughter about the pros and cons of pregnancy.
 

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