Husband Prefers to DIY instead of having regular sex

[sourapple]

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[rykgirl]

Sounds like a bra fetish..

 

[suzu_y]

Sourapple, are u hurt on the inside? That this happens? Can u live with it? Will u or not to stayed married? I'm kinda in similar situation..

 

[gladjo]

Sourapple ..if my guess is correct, your hubby needs help...the problem isn't you...he's to obession with ladies undergarment whereby he 'fantatise' then only he can get release. He may not know the danger yet but the longer this hangs on, it becomes more n more u controllerable. That's why there are peeping Toms. If your are a christian..talk to yoir pastor, prayer will break it. If you arent the seek a doctor.... God bless

 

[sane]

He might be a crossdresser, and some cross dressers are active in the sex forums to look for male sex partners.
The interest isn't with women but men.

 

[gladjo]

Sane..if he's interested in men, you will see sign of him eyeing guys easily...if it's cross dressing, then he also need a psychiatric help as it will lead to split personality n that is dangerous cos it's call Bipolar n these category of ppl , u nvm know when they snap ... If sourapple u r a Christian, that's easy cos prayer will break it otherwise pls seek professional help... Ur hubby will not want to go, so u hv really think of ways to entice him to seek help...if he snap, he can endanger you n your kids n anyone near him...its a ticking time bomb... God bless

 

[sane]

Sane..if he's interested in men, you will see sign of him eyeing guys easily...if it's cross dressing, then he also need a psychiatric help as it will lead to split personality n that is dangerous cos it's call Bipolar n these category of ppl , u nvm know when they snap ... If sourapple u r a Christian, that's easy cos prayer will break it otherwise pls seek professional help... Ur hubby will not want to go, so u hv really think of ways to entice him to seek help...if he snap, he can endanger you n your kids n anyone near him...its a ticking time bomb... God bless

True, sometimes it's beyond their control. It might be a psychological issue, better seek for pro help before it get out of hand.