littlefish866
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I gave in to pacifier but does it affect the bb feed? cos after giving her pacifier for the first time she drank only 60ml, 40 ml less than usual.
might be due to tired of suckle??
might be due to tired of suckle??
(2014/10) Oct 2014 Mummies
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agaga
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I don't have issue w my bb suck pacifier then drink milk from bottle. She still takes 125ml every 3hrs in the day everytime without fail.
These few days abt 2hrs interval she'll fuss for milk, she suck real tight on paci (only suck when near feed = slighly hungry) (and near sleep time = comfort) I'll try to drag to 3hrs interv then give.
There's once I gave milk when her mouth starts to search for food. But she can only finish 80ml.
littlebeemama
Member
Yes their milk intake will be affected coz they already get some comfort from sucking the pacifier.
littlefish866
Member
her waking hour at almost everyday 3am... is making me crazy... 
everyday try different pattern to make her sleep. Today is swaddle and pacifier. I hope tis will permanently work. In the day, she knock out no matter how hard u wake her she can sleep so soundly. Even in noisy restaurant. Some days, I tried waking her up in the noon but she gave the irritated loud cry! so I stopped disturbing her sleep hour.
everyday try different pattern to make her sleep. Today is swaddle and pacifier. I hope tis will permanently work. In the day, she knock out no matter how hard u wake her she can sleep so soundly. Even in noisy restaurant. Some days, I tried waking her up in the noon but she gave the irritated loud cry! so I stopped disturbing her sleep hour.
agaga
Active Member
Their pattern will keep changing. Last week my bb almost everyday not sleeping in the day for 6-7hours but these 2 days she sleep through almost whole day and night, wake up play awhile drink milk then cry want to sleep then sleep till next feed. I think will only stabilise ard 4months old ba..
My elder gal didn't wake up for night feed since 2mo but after only last till 5mo. Now she's 25mo still wake for milk in midnight.
My elder gal didn't wake up for night feed since 2mo but after only last till 5mo. Now she's 25mo still wake for milk in midnight.
littlefish866
Member
think as a mother we can't avoid that ... but I'm pretty scare once I return to work
agaga
Active Member
Yaa, exactly. Sometimes I asked myself "Why I make my life so difficult with 3kids, why I didn't stay childless and just travel anywhere I like" But the joy the happiness that my kids bring is priceless and definitely worth my sacrifices
...but sometimes their antics drive me up the wall!! Still, I pull through so I believe we mothers can do more than our limit. Maybe more grey hair from stress and panda eyes from restless nights Yaa, exactly. Sometimes I asked myself "Why I make my life so difficult with 3kids, why I didn't stay childless and just travel anywhere I like" But the joy the happiness that my kids bring is priceless and definitely worth my sacrifices
Exactly Agaga..
Missed the freedom but yet love them.
@littlefish
I m also scared how things will be like after I return to work. Ironically , during my no1, I was actually happy and looking forward to work.
With this , I m afraid I can't cope with two plus my work. But as Agaga mentioned , we mums can do exceeding our limits.
I m not sending my baby to IFC but from my friends experience , the feedback is v positive. For sure , babies in IFC adapts well to schedule and lesser stranger anxiety. Food wise,it's actually better than nanny care cos u know what they feed thr the menu.
Icic. Thanks for the feedback as i will be back.to work jan 2. By then baby only 4 mths. Not sure I'm able to cope once i get back to work. Now I'm not working and taking care of my baby alone i already felt very tired.
Tiffanytei
Active Member
@TiongCL,
But if sending to infant care, the possibility of HFMD is high as the babies share toys and sleep very nearby each other....besides that, if baby is sick, you need to take leave and jaga at home, also need on time fetch the baby else infant care penalty...if u send to bb sitter, it's 1-to-1, low possibility of getting sick, and bb sitter can take care if baby sick, u no need take leave......or sometimes if u have meeting at work or late dinner, bb sitter can tolerate late fetch baby without penalty....impt is to find a very good bb sitter la...
Littlebeemama I have pm u my email addy. Please add me to the chat group. Tks.
Tiongcl, impt to find a good IFC imo. I have pretty bad experience myself. Bb always come back with diaper rash and half fed. But of cos there are good feedback which I have heard. Good luck.
Tiongcl, impt to find a good IFC imo. I have pretty bad experience myself. Bb always come back with diaper rash and half fed. But of cos there are good feedback which I have heard. Good luck.
Wah so bad. Most infant care center long waiting list. At the end u withdraw?
@agaga sorry to get back so late. Rotavirus is $100 per dose.
Yup in the end I withdraw after 2 months there. Super heart pain.
Icic.. ya loh. So u stop working?
agaga
Active Member
Usually I don't really clean bb nostrils as they will sneeze out themselves but sometimes if it's watery or sticky then I'll use a damp cotton bud to clear.
Do you breastfeed or fomular feed?
littlebeemama
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Dear mummies, please kindly pm me if you wanna join the fb group, just in case I miss out if you post in the thread.
Hi can add me my email addrrss is [email protected]. thanks.
littlebeemama
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Hmmmmmmmm
blurblur_mtb
Member
My bb oso... sometimes at night oso must carry.. put her in her cit after she fell asleep she will wake up crying again
Tiffanytei
Active Member
@leocub ; @blurblur_mtb
for me if bb cries want ppl to carry, just carry him/her, this is growing up stage ma, they need our attention and hugs and kisses and loves.....else when they grow up later, u 1 2 carry oso they dun 1 u carry le...
for me if bb cries want ppl to carry, just carry him/her, this is growing up stage ma, they need our attention and hugs and kisses and loves.....else when they grow up later, u 1 2 carry oso they dun 1 u carry le...
littlebeemama
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Yes I added u to the group liao. U should have received the notificationHi littlebeemama, have you added me yet? i pm you already but dont see any group chat leh.
maybe i dont noe how to use Fb.
littlebeemama
Member
Opps sorry. Didn't know. Ady accepted.
Baobei2014
Member
Dear mummies, anyone can recommend good body suit to tone n firm?
I also heard of ginger cream to apply before wrap, anyone knows?
And can I express milk if I use the ginger cream?
I also heard of ginger cream to apply before wrap, anyone knows?
And can I express milk if I use the ginger cream?
Baobei2014
Member
Same here. I will carry, pat & sing song. It can take easily an hour
littlebeemama
Member
I use ginger cream n I'm breastfeeding.
Baobei2014
Member
Which ginger cream? Does it work? Where to buy?
agaga
Active Member
@leocub , @blurblur_mtb , my girl always want carry also, so I carry lor. Cos I don't want bb cry too long stomach get in wind. Recently she don't really cry that frequent for carry anymore, she's more independent now at 62 days old. So I believe bb need assurance and once bb trust the caregiver/s who will response to their needs, they feel more at ease hence less crying for comfort.
Always carry rock pat to sleep at night but these few days she fall asleep by herself on the bed after we got her changed into pajamas.
Always carry rock pat to sleep at night but these few days she fall asleep by herself on the bed after we got her changed into pajamas.
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Baobei2014
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Thanks littlebeemama
autumnbride56
New Member
Hi all, I'm a 6 week old mummy. Just had my little one on 18 Oct. Can someone add me to the fb group please? Would love to know more Oct mummies. [email protected]
Thanks!
Thanks!
jillstuart66
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Hi admin, Can you add me at [email protected]
I gave birth on 23 oct. Thanks
I gave birth on 23 oct. Thanks
applegreen
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hi my gal is oct baby.. can someone add me? [email protected]
happymom2510
Member
My bb on 19 oct!
littlebeemama
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Hi, @autumnbride56, I can't find your profile, please check your inbox and add me instead.
littlebeemama
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Click on my profile -> start a conversation -> provide me with your email and fb name.
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Thank you
Click on my profile -> start a conversation -> provide me with your email and fb name.
For most cases, I'm unable to find your profile because of your privacy setting (I have to change my setting in order for all of you to be able to add me), if this is the case, then I'll reply you with my email for you to add me.
Thank you
jillstuart66
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Done. Thanks!
autumnbride56
New Member
@happymom2510 yay! So we should be pretty close in terms of bb devt milestones haha. Hope to join the fb group soon I think k it's much easier to chat there than here. The first few mths are indeed trying for new mums I think it's so useful to exchange info w fellow mummies!
Baobei2014
Member
Any mummies hire helper to take care of baby after maternity leave?
Tiffanytei
Active Member
u looking for 1?
Baobei2014
Member
Ya so wondering mothers out there got any advice coz infant care full & I heard babies fall sick very easily
Hello I'm fr Nov thread...am going the helper route too. I did explore infant care and caring off a nanny during my confinement month. But in the end I turned down both available spots cos I actually trusted my Filipino helper the most...I observed her and realised she really has a heart for my baby and the skills (she bathes baby better than I do), so I'm happy to leave baby in her care when I go back to work in Feb
