chocolateteddy
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I would like to hear from mummies who have done it as I'm expecting #2 next year. Although I live with my pils and there's a maid, I'm not expecting much help from them or my own parents. I had a very bad experience during #1 and it caused a lot of conflicts between me and pils and husband and I had a bad recovery from my c-sect. I suffered post natal depression and was crying a lot cos I felt no one helped me with my difficult baby. Hb was oso often not home to help me. My only salvation then was goin out to work when baby was abt 3mths and we sent her to IFC.
I'm not working now and worry I will not find a job in time. Hb is adamant abt NOT hiring a maid to look after our kids and says can send #2 to IFC too if I work. We quarrelled badly due to this disagreement. I worry tt sending to IFC will hv the bb falling sick often and will affect my new job.
I hv so much fears now tt I sometimes feel like abandoning this pregnancy...
Advise needed pls....
I'm not working now and worry I will not find a job in time. Hb is adamant abt NOT hiring a maid to look after our kids and says can send #2 to IFC too if I work. We quarrelled badly due to this disagreement. I worry tt sending to IFC will hv the bb falling sick often and will affect my new job.
I hv so much fears now tt I sometimes feel like abandoning this pregnancy...
Advise needed pls....
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