2WW - for those TTC-ing

Yes the line will fade after many hours. At least that happens to me so far. Once a positive opk is detected, the egg will pop within 12-36hrs.

And for me, I will stop all opk once I get a positive. No point poas anymore. Just focus on bd!

Looks like you covered well this morning. Should bd again tomorrow and Wed too as last shot.

Thanks for your advices, redvel! :)
I wonder is this a real surge because I don't ever think I will ovulate this early in my cycle.. But I don't mind! Hopefully an egg really pops out soon!
 


Auntie red late for 15 days but I still don't dare to buy a kit and test. Keep myself thinking this mth miss next mth will come. Scared of that disappointment ><
 
I have been drinking 2 cups of coffee per day for the past 6 months. Wonder if this is affecting my chances of getting a BFP? Before conceiving #1 and #2 i only drank 1 cup a day. Hmm.... Maybe i should cut down liao.
 
Auntie red late for 15 days but I still don't dare to buy a kit and test. Keep myself thinking this mth miss next mth will come. Scared of that disappointment ><
I suggest you shd start to test alrdy.. dun wait.. at least you can set ur mind at ease.. dun need to keep on thinking..
go to guardian or watsons to buy a CB to test.. hope to hear ur good news soon. :)
 
I just scared to see negative. --.-

Understand how you feel.. hugs. Don't be afraid of the results. No matter positive or negative. If positive, very good. If not, continue to prepare your body to give the best home for yr baby for the months it will be inside snuggling ya. Jiayou.
 
Hi all,

New to this thread and was a silent reader. Am also ttcing for 2 yrs now, and in the tww. But feeling very down today. It's 9dpo, tested bfn this morning and felt very emo and disappointed. Been wanting a number 2 for so long and it didn't happen. Now my do is already 5yrs old. Had an mc earlier this march when we finally got a bfp for the first time only to lose bb at 6wks. Really don't know when this ever gonna happen for me.

Sorry to drag the mood down. Do u all ever feel this way? When is it gonna happen to me? Will it ever happen? Should I give up hoping it will ever happen?

I probably should just cherish that I have one already. But that feeling when u watch her at the playground with other kids who have siblings and how much she wants friends is quite painful. She repeatedly tells me she wants a sibling.

It's always a bfn mth after mth. I'm so discouraged and sick of it. Every cycle hopes r high, it hits the o day then the tww gets crazy. I kp imagining I must have this or that symptom till I'm probably insane. Only to get a bfn again and again. So sick of it!!!
 
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Hi all,

New to this thread and was a silent reader. Am also ttcing for 2 yrs now, and in the tww. But feeling very down today. It's 9dpo, tested bfn this morning and felt very emo and disappointed. Been wanting a number 2 for so long and it didn't happen. Now my do is already 5yrs old. Had an mc earlier this march when we finally got a bfp for the first time only to lose bb at 6wks. Really don't know when this ever gonna happen for me.

Sorry to drag the mood down. Do u all ever feel this way? When is it gonna happen to me? Will it ever happen? Should I give up hoping it will ever happen?

I probably should just cherish that I have one already. But that feeling when u watch her at the playground with other kids who have siblings and how much she wants friends is quite painful. She repeatedly tells me she wants a sibling.

It's always a bfn mth after mth. I'm so discouraged and sick of it. Every cycle hopes r high, it hits the o day then the tww gets crazy. I kp imagining I must have this or that symptom till I'm probably insane. Only to get a bfn again and again. So sick of it!!!

hi saraiii, you are definitely not alone.
I believe everyone here have thought of these... will it ever happen? when will it happen? should I give up?
It is very nice of you to have the thoughts of cherishing your only one and don't think about it anymore because sometimes, things are fated. But then, it is definitely understandable why you would want a sibling for your second child. I can even imagine your heartache when you watch her at the playground.. Sigh, just like all of us here who do not even have a child... we will look at mothers and pregnant ladies and wonder when will it be our turn?

Symptoms read can really drive one insane... Please try to stay strong for yourself, for your hubby and your child.

Have you gone to gynae for a check? Maybe it is something that can be resolved easily.

DPO9 is still quite early, maybe you test again in another few days time. Don't give yourself too much stress.. Stress will only hinder your ttc-ing further.

Please take care and distract yourself with positive thoughts. Life still have to go on...

I know it probably won't help a lot but I personally know of friends/colleagues who only managed to conceive their 2nd child after 7, 9 and even like 13-14 yrs... Sometimes it may come when we least expect it...
 
Hi piggling,

Thanks for reading n replying to me. I've seen a gynae with hubby, nothing much wrong with our checks at this point. He asked us to try for 3mths then go bk to him if need be refer to fertility specialist. I'm better now, think pms perhaps makes me kinda emo and insane checking symptoms. Shall shelf the thoughts and move on for now. Ttc is really stressful. Think I don't wanna count and monitor anymore. Whatever happens happens. I give up trying.
 
Hi piggling,

Thanks for reading n replying to me. I've seen a gynae with hubby, nothing much wrong with our checks at this point. He asked us to try for 3mths then go bk to him if need be refer to fertility specialist. I'm better now, think pms perhaps makes me kinda emo and insane checking symptoms. Shall shelf the thoughts and move on for now. Ttc is really stressful. Think I don't wanna count and monitor anymore. Whatever happens happens. I give up trying.

Hugs saraii. We all have our weak moments and struggle with PMS. Is good to vent it out. Just try to take it easy for now and do the things you like while you ride out the 2WW. Jia you!
 
Hi piggling,

Thanks for reading n replying to me. I've seen a gynae with hubby, nothing much wrong with our checks at this point. He asked us to try for 3mths then go bk to him if need be refer to fertility specialist. I'm better now, think pms perhaps makes me kinda emo and insane checking symptoms. Shall shelf the thoughts and move on for now. Ttc is really stressful. Think I don't wanna count and monitor anymore. Whatever happens happens. I give up trying.

Yes, ttc is really stressful especially when one is fighting against time like myself who is more than 35 years old.
I am in my 2WW too and though I don't seem to bother tracking any symptom this time round, I can imagine the devastation and helplessness when AF reports.
Not really sure how to handle and most probably will need sometime before moving on with life yet again.
 
Hi piggling,

Thanks for reading n replying to me. I've seen a gynae with hubby, nothing much wrong with our checks at this point. He asked us to try for 3mths then go bk to him if need be refer to fertility specialist. I'm better now, think pms perhaps makes me kinda emo and insane checking symptoms. Shall shelf the thoughts and move on for now. Ttc is really stressful. Think I don't wanna count and monitor anymore. Whatever happens happens. I give up trying.
Hi Sarahii, why not stop thinking to ttc and let it be natural then you never know? *hugs*

Did you do all the BBT and OPK also? Don't worry, emotions run high when it comes back BFN :(

We are here to support each other through TTC journey :)
 
Hiaz, so happy to catch hubby when LH surge but only BD for 2 days then end up work over took so couldn't BD on CD 13-15 :(

Getting O is one thing, trying to BD on those days is also another... I'm still keeping my fingers crossed but can't see much hope :(
 
Dear All...tested with BFP on the very first day early morning when I missed my menses. That was last Tuesday. Went down to my gyane on wed for jab as I had miscarriage before and they cfm is BFP.

I rem previous pregnancy i got bleeding in week 5 onwards and wasn't feeling since the day i got BFP. But this time round, i feel much better. Sore breast, tiredness and cramp are what i have this time round but no more terrible back pain.

today is the very first day of my week 5 and suddenly i dun the soreness in my breast. like no cramping also. temperature also like nt that high though i haven got the chance to chart today.

Does anyone encounter the same situation as mine?
 
Yoshi, Yar I understand that feeling completely. Getting o is not the problem, bd during o is more if the issue. Almost makes the whole process mechanical mth after mth, that's why after this cycle I wanna just skip.

Melonysg,
When I was pregnant with my first child, I had no symptoms at all no ms nothing and it was a smooth happy pregnancy. With my second, entirely opposite, I had symptoms but end up miscarriage at 6wks. So I think symptoms r really not a good gauge at all. If u worried can go to gynae and check scan or take hcg levels to playsafe.
 
Hi Saraiii during my first MC I had a lot of very uncomfortable symptoms. But this time round, when I dun have that many symptoms I get worried too. sigh. I try to relax myself. Heading for my scan next Monday. suppose to be this fri de but scare too early so go scan on next Monday. I hope I get to hear the HB and everything is ok on next Monday.
 
Dear All...tested with BFP on the very first day early morning when I missed my menses. That was last Tuesday. Went down to my gyane on wed for jab as I had miscarriage before and they cfm is BFP.

I rem previous pregnancy i got bleeding in week 5 onwards and wasn't feeling since the day i got BFP. But this time round, i feel much better. Sore breast, tiredness and cramp are what i have this time round but no more terrible back pain.

today is the very first day of my week 5 and suddenly i dun the soreness in my breast. like no cramping also. temperature also like nt that high though i haven got the chance to chart today.

Does anyone encounter the same situation as mine?

melony, there are times when my (.)(.) hurt so bad that I yelp the moment I start showering / remove my bra but there are also good days .. And wrt the cramping, isn't it good that the cramps have gone away for now at least? For me I don't exactly have cramping but rather, a dull ache / pulling sensation on some days (and it doesnt last the whole day, probably a couple of hours?)

Dont worry too much ya. So long as there is no bleeding accompanied with cramping, things shld be fine.
 
Hiaz, so happy to catch hubby when LH surge but only BD for 2 days then end up work over took so couldn't BD on CD 13-15 :(

Getting O is one thing, trying to BD on those days is also another... I'm still keeping my fingers crossed but can't see much hope :(

Dont get sad yet. I BD days before my gynae predicted my O. it's possible de! Keep up the faith k?
 
Dear All...tested with BFP on the very first day early morning when I missed my menses. That was last Tuesday. Went down to my gyane on wed for jab as I had miscarriage before and they cfm is BFP.

I rem previous pregnancy i got bleeding in week 5 onwards and wasn't feeling since the day i got BFP. But this time round, i feel much better. Sore breast, tiredness and cramp are what i have this time round but no more terrible back pain.

today is the very first day of my week 5 and suddenly i dun the soreness in my breast. like no cramping also. temperature also like nt that high though i haven got the chance to chart today.

Does anyone encounter the same situation as mine?

For me, the sore breasts is an on off thing. Few days damn pain.. then not pain. Cramping happens but no cramping doesnt mean smtg is wrong.
 
Dear All...tested with BFP on the very first day early morning when I missed my menses. That was last Tuesday. Went down to my gyane on wed for jab as I had miscarriage before and they cfm is BFP.

I rem previous pregnancy i got bleeding in week 5 onwards and wasn't feeling since the day i got BFP. But this time round, i feel much better. Sore breast, tiredness and cramp are what i have this time round but no more terrible back pain.

today is the very first day of my week 5 and suddenly i dun the soreness in my breast. like no cramping also. temperature also like nt that high though i haven got the chance to chart today.

Does anyone encounter the same situation as mine?

Melody, my sore was during the early stage, aft week 6 i dun hv sore too... Crampy was before i tested BFP, more on pulling pain... Tml will b my week 10, so far nt too much of discomfort except for the sudden vomit & lower tummy feels tight (like full bladder feel)...
 
Melonysg, it's not always sore breasts. I personally only feel it once awhile. Dun tik too much though I know the fear n paranoid especially experience mc before... lets have faith in our Beanie..
 
Yup pls try again tmr using FMU

Tested with FMU with a BFN once again

Damn heavy hearted once again . 2nd time false hope alrdy despite auntie red delayed for more then 2 weeks.
 

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Hi baby Weiting, go for a blood test.blood test is most accurate one.
Yeah some test kits unable to detect the HCG in large quantity. Blood test most accurate.
 
But auntie red alrdy late for 17days still not enuff hcg?

Y not try using a clear blue digital which is more sensitive? I tested on the very first day of my missed menses using FMU and get a result. But at night and the next day morning I try using those line indication de and I basically got to wait super long den see a super faint line. If not then go clinic and do blood test.
 
I feel forgot about hpt anymore. It's not an issue of sensitivity of hpt now. See a gynae and let her do test and advice. Late for almost 3 weeks is a concern. See how she can help.
 

Hi ladies!

It's my CD8 today. Shall start engine already. Haha. Hopefully can strike this time so that I can get an April (late) baby. Then my kids' bday will be like, Feb - Mar - Apr. Woohoo.

stoneystoney, how are you? Boy or girl?
 

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