hopeful_mum
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ya my gynaes doesn't agree to tcm. sounds good that Dr Jocelyn believes. so I nvr bu or do confinement after mc loh. now my mum scold me for not listening to her lol
ya my gynaes doesn't agree to tcm. sounds good that Dr Jocelyn believes. so I nvr bu or do confinement after mc loh. now my mum scold me for not listening to her lol
5 weeks! my fibroid surgery only gave me 4 weeks. ectopic surgery only 3 weeks leh!ha ha i think im the one who had the longest HL. i actually took 5 weeks off from work to 'heal' my heart body and soul.
i jsut wanted to get away from office and be mself at home. but time passed so fast!
5 weeks! my fibroid surgery only gave me 4 weeks. ectopic surgery only 3 weeks leh!
lol but ectopic I wanted to go back to work for one last week so I told dr dont need anymore mc. coz my notice period 2 mths, who knows I ganna ectopic. last week go back clear work dont want leave shit behind.
that week I work past 3am! lol almost daily, even on my last day.
ya last time workaholic, not I take a chill pill.
Hi Haze02,
Thank you for the advice. I am drinking lots of red date with logan and ginger and also eating food with lots of ginger as well. I think all women in this forum are strong women who have the courage to try again despite failures. I hope I can gain that courage soon to try again. I am currently 34 and docs all say because of age, MC risk is higher. That is really not encouraging to me.
yah...better rest more and relax for you now...no stress at all is better.
by the way my natural MC no MC at all !!!
oh ya chem preg they nvr give me MC also. coz its like a mensus. actually hor I try not to treat my 2 chems as miscarraiges. but the drs keep saying is miscarriage. coz I add them in I become have 5 miscarriages. I dont like the sound of it. but I have accepted it as one type of miscarriage.he ask me treat it as menses maybe cause mine is chemical pregnancy. but its still mc...im lost of word
I also have 60 days hospitalization leave leh. lol nvm lah I pai seh to take so much leave. last time very silly one. come to think of it I shd have just taken. my boss very sweet, she actually say I dont need to go back do handover. meaning my notice period just over like that loh together with the HL. lol but I cannot ,just have to go back and finish. and I miss my colleagues. lol I siao kia.haha my doc very generous with MC and HL so he said i can request as much as i want. so i had 5 weeks lor.. i really didnt feel like working n facing everyone even though i was physically fine.
my HL is 60 days entitlement.
hi miracle no. 2.. im still popping by this thread once in a while
lol ya loh. that's why my mum says my ming very ku. lol but its a choice mah. she says u quit liao still need to commit to work. siao. lolnot only u forfeit the HL but u stay back till morning...really xiao leh
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Hello everyone....princess , hopeful, haze, baby sparkles....
How is everyone? Long time......
I am recovering my opn for the ahesion band and will be trying IVF in June....
Is everyone still in the battle? Jia you!!!!
hi I hear mixed reviews abt the Ban choon chan. u can consider seeing tsb, his queue super ultra long. I rem someone said he misdiagnosed the lady. dont know to be preggie or not. I cant recall.Hi Baby Sparkles,
This TCM good? Where is it located?
I have another contact from another friend for a TCM in Marine Parade call Ban Choon Chan whom I heard is also good with infertility. I am going to try and see him on Sunday.
hello, hope u are recovering well from ur op!Great............ and helloo..............
after my second miscarriage I try straight away, I nvr rested. coz I believe in being fertile after mc, so I just whacked. even though TCM usually ask to rest for 3 mths.By the way ladies, how long do you let your body recover before trying again?
How could ur gynea be so discouraging... This year I'm 36 year old & MC 3 times, my gynea still encourage me to never give up... Only meantime he ask me to wait for fetus result & let my body recover first... As I had 2 D&C within 6 mth, somehow it make my body weak.. So I'm now see TSB to recover my body.. Dun let age affect u dear.... There a lot of ladies here at age of 30+ too... Take ur time to recover mentally and physically, cry and rant as much u want... When time come by, u will realize how strong u are... Jiayou dear!
Great............ and helloo..............
she busy traveling! lol so envious!why june? u follow the 3mths wait?
wah...like this i also whacked in coming cycle...i suspect i kena second chem mc cause this menses is very unusually....but but cause i heard u r most fertile aft mc...make me wanna ttc again soonest
Thank you Haze02, that is why I have to change a gynea who can give us some positiveness. Is this TSB person very good? Can share the contacts?
I try but not like die die must bd that type. didn't really test for O also, but I know my body so I roughly know when I O. I was thinking if strike lioa just say by chance loh lol then TCM wont scold me.u still got break around 3mths....
ya basically after my chem preg in dec. TCM told me to rest my body for min 3-6 mths.
by 3rd mth I rested I strike unexpectedly.
anyway what Dr Su shared was, with my past miscarriages history, if I keep trying and mc again, then can have a huge impact on me. my menopause may come early! I really stunt. cos she says ur body think u already delivered a few babies, so can rest. must rest properly to go further. so she says dont know why we rushing. coz rushing is not good for body.
so ladies, up to ur own discretion wanna try or not. also everyone has different health type, so do what u think is best for urself.
after I see Dr su I got listen to her. I didn't actively try, I took the if have then good attitude, although I will still be disappointed when af shows.
Hello!!
Great to hear you are well!
I am ttc-ing in June too!! Gambateh!!!
hello, hope u are recovering well from ur op!
jia you!! pouring baby dust on u since u are going to try soon.
I hope I can continue pouring baby dust till nov when I deliver
Hey girl.... Great to hear u are well.
Meantime I'm trying to recover from my 3 MC... Waiting for my fetus chromosome result too.
Hope to hear more bb dust here too... Jiayou!!
I try but not like die die must bd that type. didn't really test for O also, but I know my body so I roughly know when I O. I was thinking if strike lioa just say by chance loh lol then TCM wont scold me.
but she worry for my health, she worry I cannot ovulate again if I keep having miscarriages.
opps paiseh, nvr say clearly. ya im preggie now again, hopefully this is a success story. into my 9 weeks.Hi Hi....Hopeful.....u are pregnant!! Sorry I missed a lot of infos.....Congrats!!!!!!
Wow...so happy for you!!!!!! God bless you for a smooth pregnancy!!!!!
She is also a TCM. her clinic at bukit batok. but she also has not apt system. so when I compare TSB and her, clinic wise, TSB like super professional. attitude wise, Dr su more sincere I feel. maybe I didn't see tsb more so I dont know. TSB a bit ya ya, coz a lot of ppl from KKH ivf are recommended to see her. she says the kkh head of IVF (apparently Indian) also believed in her meds.btw where is dr su? western doc?
ya I notti nvr listen one lah. stubborn cow. lol u looked at the way I work u know liao lol.Yeah... Actually Dr Tan also worry abt mine too... She say my body badly harm due to the MC twice within 6 mth.
She wanted me to rest for at least 3 mth to tiao back my health and let it rest.... Saying now my Qi very weak liao..
Now I'm more patient liao... Health come first... If without proper health... Need to prepare a good bed for next pregnancy.
Hello gal...... Sorry to hear that....... I thought you went for NUH on the studies for the m/c?
I didnt' manage to catch up with everyone's details.....
You jia you too ya!!!!
Rest well and eat more pu....
Hello princess .....
Yeah we can be TTC buddy in June....I am starting a fresh IVF cycle..so would be very stress.. Jiayou!!!
Yes I went for all the recurrent miscarriage blood tests.. Every result is fine, nothing much to worry.
Somehow with all the medication and injection to support, I also cannot hold my baby.
Anyway move on from here.. Close the chapter. Now more Gan Chiong is the result for my fetus... Pray nothing bad! Everyday waiting for the call is torture.
Though IVF can b stressful but try to relax as much as you can! Jiayou!
im sure u will be fine. then ur kid can have a sibling, I rem u have a child right?Sorry to hear that...... Maybe you should rest more and tio your body...... God Bless and will pray for you!!
Must tio and rest ...................
I also have phobia....esp gg for IVF fresh cycle........... I worry about a 3rd time m/c....... worry here and there.............sigh
Sorry to hear that...... Maybe you should rest more and tio your body...... God Bless and will pray for you!!
Must tio and rest ...................
I also have phobia....esp gg for IVF fresh cycle........... I worry about a 3rd time m/c....... worry here and there.............sigh
Worry not! My mum gave birth to me when she's 41!Hi Mangohope,
Thank you for your advice. I am crying whenever it hits me. There is always some point in the day, sadness hits and I just start to cry alone. Husband has been very supportive but somehow this kind of grief is not something I can let go so fast. This is my first MC. I actually went to 2 gyneas just to have 2nd opinion. Docs keep saying something is wrong, that is why heartbeat has stopped but it is not due to me. It's the genetics that is not well-formed. I am avoiding my nephew and niece whom I love a lot just to avoiding hitting myself with sadness. I am trying to overcome this and move on soon. Definitely we will try again because our docs say that I am not young anymore so cannot wait. I am currently 34. Hope you can heal soon too.
Hugs. Then how u really don't want to see Liao. Do what u feel right.Today is like a full hospital day now waiting for hub to see his psychiatrist den later my turn. Feeling very moody also mayb cos af is here think my cycle quite accurate. Last year this
Worry not! My mum gave birth to me when she's 41!
I just came back from the neuroscience dept at nuh, talking to the psychiatrist kinda trigger all the pain and sorrow out! She asked me to take some pills to control my emotions and will make me feel better but I refuse to take them. Just thinking about my hb they kept on add dosage after each visit. She just kinda remind me of settling the probs first before ttc again. Didn't wanna see her again but she say needs to monitor me for a few more sessions first.