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    Sahm -stress with kids- no life

    Some sahm are really lucky to have supportive husbands who support their decision to stay at home and maintain the house and look after children. But sad to say, some men think of themselves as indispensable and that they bring home the bacon and so they have the right to raise their voice at...
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    Keeping a marriage alive

    I have a condition nobody knows why i need him to help as i have ocd after giving birth to my child. OCD as in obsessive compulsive disorder and i m afraid of dirt, need to wash hands frequently and have problems with cooking. I jus wan him to understand as ocd is also associated with anxiety...
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    Sahm -stress with kids- no life

    Hi Gooseberry, How old are your children? I feel like calling it quits now. Until now the pain is still hitting hard on my chest. I find that the person closest to you who sleeps besides you everynite may not be the person whom you can really confide in. Some couples can be like good friends...
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    Keeping a marriage alive

    Sometimes is really not a matter of making a fuss over something. We see things from their point of view and did they reciprocate the same way. Marriage takes two hands to clap. If a party did not say things to provoke the other party, would things come to such a stage? I m jus stating things...
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    Sahm -stress with kids- no life

    Hi Meowmummy, Thks for your consolation. I feel we have come to a point where we cant communicate with each other. He called my parents and conplained about me. Who in the world does that? If a husband loves his wife, will he do that? Who doesnt experience stress? We r also having stress as...
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    Sahm -stress with kids- no life

    I feel that me being a stay at home mum gives my child's father more reason to look down on me. Today we had a row and he said wat kind of a wife i m comes home got to help me with cooking and other stuff. I feel lousy he is really looking at me in a bad light. He only knows how to criticise and...
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    Thinking of Divorce

    I m also thinking of divorce but i dun think it is the best way out when kids r involved as it is going to cause them great hurt and impact greatly on their future. I think the judge will not separate the kids and they will place priority on the interests of the children. I also cant live with...
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    Keeping a marriage alive

    I jus hope men who has a wives and who done so much things for the family and looking after the entire household well, pls do appreciate wat your wife has done cos a stay at home mum is not having life easy at home. Who likes to come home to a messy house, with shoes and things lying around...
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    Keeping a marriage alive

    I m always thinking how to keep a marriage alive and is divorce the only way out for couples having troubles in their marriage? I thought of divorce this afternoon when i had a row with my child's father. He said really nasty things about me like wat kind of a wife am i and that i m not...
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    Divorce & schizophrenia

    I also thinking of getting a divorce ask him do a thing will show a twenty five cent charcoal face. Is it really too much to ask him to do a thing? I also getting real tired of this marriage really regretted knowing him in the first place and bring suffering to my girl. Cant talk or communicate...
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    I FEEL VERY VERY TEMPTED TO GET A DIVORCE AND START AN AFFAIR WITH SOMEONE RIGHT NOW. AM I OK?

    This pig doesnt even know how to talk properly. Jus had a quarrel with him and really angry with his attitude. Dun understand feel as though he really got no patience to listen to me and talk nicely. I feel like an idiot in his eyes someone very worthless to him. I am sick of this kinda attitude...
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    I FEEL VERY VERY TEMPTED TO GET A DIVORCE AND START AN AFFAIR WITH SOMEONE RIGHT NOW. AM I OK?

    Is tiredness the reason stopping us from having sex with our partners? My husband is telling me tired, tired, tired from work and we have not have sex for two menses period (meaning to say almost two months). I just had my menses few days ago. Normally after my menses, we would have one time sex...
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    I FEEL VERY VERY TEMPTED TO GET A DIVORCE AND START AN AFFAIR WITH SOMEONE RIGHT NOW. AM I OK?

    Is tiredness the reason stopping us from having sex with our partners? My husband is telling me tired, tired, tired from work and we have not have sex for two menses period (meaning to say almost two months). I just had my menses few days ago. Normally after my menses, we would have one time sex...
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    A selfish husband

    I think the main problem is I no longer understand him, cannot communicate with him, and the love between us is growing faint, like a withered flower. How I hope when my husband comes home from work will give me a deep hug, asks how my day is , and kisses me on the lips before saying night. All...

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